There aren’t many things in a little person’s life that they have control over. When you start to impose boundaries or limit their autonomy over breastfeeding, you can often find that some big feelings come out in response. This week, I’m joined by parenting mentor Shelley Clarke, to talk about how we can help our little people experience those big feelings safely, what learning we may need to do about ourselves, and how you can strengthen your relationship as you negotiate change. Find out more about Shelley on her website - www.shelleyclarke.com Or follow her on Instagram @_shelleyclarke_ Find out more about breastfeeding and chest feeding older babies and children in my book Supporting Breastfeeding Past the First Six Months and Beyond: A Guide for Professionals and Parents Follow me on Twitter @MakesMilk and on Instagram  @emmapickettibclc or find out more on my website www.emmapickettbreastfeedingsupport.com Resources mentioned  -  The Aware Parenting Institute - www.awareparenting.com www.handinhandparenting.org The Emotional Life of Babies, Marion Rose, Ph.D.  This podcast is presented by Emma Pickett IBCLC, and produced by Emily Crosby Media.