"You never would have let me do that," says the older child. "Why can't I do the same thing as my brother?" demands the younger. Parents may find themselves caught between competing complaints! But the fact is, many of our family rules can and should change as our children grow and mature - and that means different rules in the same family. This episode, we talk about why that is, and how we can explain it to our kids!   Things We Referenced: When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things. (The Apostle Paul, 1 Corinthians 13:11) Surviving the Break with Your College Student (ep. 287) Thoughts on giving liberty to adult children, while protecting younger siblings from influences they aren't ready to handle Our free downloadable guide to "coming of age" ceremonies Bored kids? Here's a great list of 101 things to do this summer!  This episode brought to you in part by THE SUBSCRIPTION BOX THAT BUILDS YOUR SKILLS