Do mental health problems live in your marriage? Do you find yourself tiptoeing around those issues and trying to avoid triggering the protective responses that are connected to them? Is this having an impact on your marriage in the worst possible way - where those mental health problems become the primary source of decision making for each of you (through trying to avoid their triggering) and you can't solve ANY real issues, because you can't respond freely, or talk openly. And if you try to bring up your problems or concerns, it always ends terribly. Where your beloved is tripped into old patterns of feeling depressed, not good enough, lonely, isolated, anxious and in an altogether downward spiral? If so, you're not alone. This is incredibly common in a marriage and common within this group. I'm answering this question from our WMMW Closed FB Group tonight. See you there, Meg