Throughout #medicalschool #residency and even #fellowship we admit when interacting with our past teaching attendings we were people pleasers.   We did all that we could to get the glowing #LORs (letters of recommendations).  We went above and beyond like most of us do. However, in hindsight (which is always 20/20) We now see that we learned behavior that would prove harmful to our careers.  So to all of our past Attendings here are the things we wish we said...  #tokenism #donototouchmyhair # sexism #favoritism #powerdynamic #tonedeaf #privilege #youshouldseecolor #diversity #inclusion #safespace #ptsd #nepotism  #medicalschool #residency #toxicculture #wecandobetter --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mdfeme-inc/support