Being attractive comes more from your personality than from your appearance, and demonstrating an attractive personality is key to making friends and having lasting relationships.  To have an attractive personality, cultivate the ability to communicate naturally, develop a sense of humor, and build a confident disposition. These traits give you the ability to inspire and fascinate others, making others more drawn to you as a result.   1 . *Learn Important Social Skills*    If you are only attractive on the outside, it will never be enough to move you forward in your career or help you in your closest relationships. For this reason, it is important to sharpen up your social skills. The more successful you are in the social areas of your life, the more self-confidence you will have. Use positive gestures when you are interacting with people, and be cognizant of your body language as to not give off a negative impression. Learn to listen empathically, look people in the eye, and reflect back to them what you hear them say. In social settings, you'll need to be armed with some icebreaker topics to discuss and understand the art of small talk, even if you're an introvert.