026: Setting Limits The Right Way
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Getting kids to listen and follow our directions is the most common challenge parents face. Ideally, we think about setting limits with children before we run into conflicts. The secret is in the relationship and the approach we take to setting limits. In this episode we explore the diplomatic approach that is based on the following five principles: 1. Limits are a natural part of life 2. Need for information 3. Quality over quantity 4. Shared control 5. Positive language
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