Even though Ashley's name change has gone through, she's wasn't sure whether it would make any difference when she visited her parents over Thanksgiving. It turns out, Ashley's cousins, aunts, and uncles seem to have become all the more supportive, while her parents still lag behind. Ashley goes over a conversation with her parents in which she tried to gently ask them again if they could please use her pronouns. She was expecting that it might be a five-minute conversation -- mostly just putting out the request and then awaiting the invariable milquetoast response -- but Ashley recalls that the conversation nosedived right from the start. Although Ashley had hoped to focus on her pronouns rather than her name (which seemed to be more of a sticking point), her parents soon derailed the discussion to harp on about her name. Although Ashley's parents have moved on to using a childhood nickname for her -- well, most of the time -- Ashley laments that this would-be interim name seems to have taken up permanent residence. Ashley and Jay ponder how she could try to convey to her parents how important it is to her that they use her name. They mull over a few ideas and Jay half-jokingly tosses out the idea that Ashley could have photocopies of her driver's license at the ready to pass out to any doubting bystanders. Ashley recalls her dad telling an anecdote about her college years and, after Ashley discovered that he was using the wrong pronouns, she chimed in with a brief correction, only to have her dad offer the rationalization, "but you were a 'he' at the time." Realizing that the I Would Prefer These Pronouns When Referring to My Past discussion wasn't something she could squeeze in as an aside over dinner with guests, Ashley contemplates whether she should send her parents an email to talk through some of that. Back in our second episode, Ashley sung the praises of using primer as part of one's makeup routine, including recommendations for L'Oreal Paris' Magic Perfecting Base and Smashbox' Photo Finish. After recently noticing a reformulation of L'Oreal's primer, however, Ashley revisits whether it's still a comparable product against Smashbox' Photo Finish. Ashley also follows up on some earlier thoughts about cleaning one's makeup brushes and she shares some tips to help prevent one's brushes from losing their bristles. (Ashley's polish in this episode is German-icure from OPI. We aren't being paid to say this — just thought maybe you'd like to know.)