With Narcissists It's Never Good Enough! Here I give examples of the hell I went through in my marriage. I was in my early 20's and he was in his early 30's. He had already been divorced once. Now I know why. I talk about how anything you ever do for a narcissist will never be good enough because they put themselves on pedestals even though they don't deserve any kindness. They take and never give back, and will hate you for your kindness. What got me to be with my ex were the following narc behaviors: bread crumbing love bombing he used empathy as a weapon #narcissists #narcsontherun #npd