What Would Make the Narcissist Not Want Me Back? It's the same thing that causes the narcissistic rage. Expose their biggest vulnerability- their ego and make it not about THEM. Narcissists make everything about themselves. It's a "me" game and they react through childish temper tantrums when they don't get what they want. Expose their lies and set boundaries. Doing these things will make the narcissist want nothing to do with you because you make it hard to do their job. They want what is easy which is why they target those with empathy. They like to rely on the "feel sorry for me game" because it's the easiest thing they know. They do not care who they hurt or how they hurt you. They only care that you threaten their supply. It is and always will be about THEM.