We both traveled a lot during our relationships and each of us had unique challenges getting ready to travel and during each trip we took.  If you don't know you are in a neurodiverse relationship there are so many challenges that can add stress to traveling.  Our partners had to leave the comfort of their homes and safe environments to travel to a place they may want to go to, but there was less control then when they were at home.  Clear communication about timelines and what activities would be taking place during the trip would have been very helpful  for us to share with our ex's to avoid some stressful experiences.