play THIS EPISODE loudLY at work Sophia is awesome, let’s just put that out there. She’s had bylines in The Guardian, Allure, Refinery29, Reductress, Mr. Porter and The Cut. She is also a regular sex & relationships columnist for Bustle and GQ.  She’s also the author of the new book,  “Well, This is Exhausting” a collection of extremely personal and absurdly funny essays about Sophia’s life. Her dating life, her sex life, her life as a writer, growing up struggling with obesity. You can read a bunch of glowing reviews here or just take our word for it. Some Things You WILL ABSOLUTELY Learn About > Are orgasms overrated?   > Sex: Quality vs. Quantity   > The need for wildly insecure role models > Being real about fatphobia > Opening up about fantasies and fetishes > Are mean girls really mean? > Resisting the urge to fly your woke flag > Democrats or Republicans – Who makes a better lover? > The ONE thing men can do to supercharge their online dating life > The ONE thing men can do to supercharge their real-world dating life > A football player’s worst sex ever > A football player’s worst sex ever > A money-back guarantee   Nice Links * Sophia's Very Own Internet Website* Sophia has partnered with Instagram to create her own page there* Another Internet Website, But This One Contains Literary Erotica Top photo of Madison by @tannerunderwater