Like millions of other Americans, Alicia Valladao did a DNA ancestry test when there was a sale, eager to learn more about her roots. Through the testing, she was surprised to learn that her biological father was not who she had thought he was. Alicia discusses the identity crisis and disenfranchised grief that followed, where and how she found support, and how this information has impacted her family relationships. Alicia has become active in Not Parent Expected, or NPE Groups, and is also currently writing a memoir. Have thoughts or a related story you’d like to share? Leave us a short voice message here! We may use your message on a future show. Links and Resources Alicia’s story on the NPE Podcast Description without hyperlink: DNAngels Facebook Group DNA Surprise Support Facebook Group NPE Only After The Discovery Facebook Group Watershed DNA: Genetic counseling services focused on genealogy and ancestry. A DNA Guide for Adoptees: addresses topics relevant to anyone doing a family search Connect with Alicia on Social Media: Alicia on Facebook Alicia on Instagram: @notparentexpected Alicia on Twitter: @npealicia Check out other Patient Stories podcast episodes. Read other Patient Stories on the Grey Genetics Patient Stories Page Do you want to support Patient Stories? You can now make a donation online! Want to support Patient Stories in a non-monetary way? Leave us a review on iTunes, or share your favorite episodes on Social Media. Patient Stories on Twitter: @GreyGeneticsPod Patient Stories on Instagram: @patientstoriespodcast Are you looking for genetic counseling? Patient Stories is sponsored by Grey Genetics, an independent telehealth genetic counseling and consulting company. Book an appointment with a genetic counselor specialized in your area of concern. All genetic counseling appointments take place over secure, HIPAA-compliant video-conferencing or by phone. Not quite ready for genetic counseling but still looking for guidance? Check out our new family history review services here.