Lauren and Chan have their hearts warmed by the Taylor + Travis Coachella content, and they chat about the couple’s festival security situation and Taylor’s normie girl moment. In preparation for TTPD, Lauren has Joe Alwyn on the brain and is ready to dissect Taylor’s lyrics that tell everyone what Joe really is like. The gals switch over to another tortured poet with Gerry the Golden Bachelor and dive into what could have been so wrong that he and Theresa would split after just three months of marriage. They then move on to listener relationship questions and feature a Pop Apologist Golden Moment from their Dating Red Flags episode.  Lauren and Chan answer questions about: -What to do when your longterm boyfriend gets upset when you ask about a proposal -Whether you should give a guy another chance after he ghosted you a year ago -What you should do when your super hot ex joins the Illuminati(!!) for fame -Whether you should date a man who’s morals don’t align with yours, but makes a ton of money -How to handle a marriage where you and your spouse disagree over big things -Whether you should move in with your boyfriend before getting engaged -How to cope when the person you are having an affair with dies -What to do if you don’t have instant chemistry with the person you are dating -What to do when you and your partner have different levels of desire -How to cope when your partner cheats -How to get your boyfriend to be more romantic in your relationship  -What to do when your crush is in a bad relationship with someone else? Shop Clean Simple Eats protein powder and use code POPAPOLOGISTS for 10% off! Go to EarlyBirdCBD.com to get our favorite CBD/THC gummies and use code POPAPOLOGISTS20 for 20% off. To support the show, consider subscribing on Patreon, where you can get a bonus episode of Pop Apologists every Friday! Please note this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices