We all want a love that is special and specific to us. Even the ones who claim not to want it deep, deep down. This is why it is vital to love on yourself and do the soul work that is required. Self awareness and development puts you in the best condition to attract the best person for you. If you are wondering why you keep coming across a certain type of man or friend, this is most likely why. If you are beating yourself up for not keeping or attracting your dream guy, this is why. Doing the work and falling in love with the process enables the right people and circumstances to fall right in your lap, it allures those very things. You won’t even have to work for it. This is what I mean when I say self love is the best love. That doesn’t mean be selfish, it means prioritizing your growth. Always and forever. If you are in a tumultuous relationship, this could be the issue as well. You have to constantly and consistently work towards bettering yourself. Never let her fall by the wayside, she is the one who will be there regardless so she deserves the same tlc that you’re giving everyone else.