Thomas Page McBee is an author and journalist who writes about masculinity, and gender more broadly. Because Thomas is also trans, I entered the conversation with a preconceived set of beliefs, mostly based on the popular narratives I'd seen in media about trans people. Thomas and I discuss where his story and reporting diverged from those narratives, and he helped me understand that gender is complicated for all of us. Thomas has a unique and informed perspective on issues many men struggle with, including emotional detachment, gender policing, shame, and violence. This episode is brought to you by Omnifocus.guru, a free seminar to redesign your workflow from scratch. Sign up: http://omnifocus.guru + Pre-Order Amateur: A True Story of What Makes a Man + Full Shownotes: bit.ly/RadAwakenings + Join the RAD community: http://RadReads.email