It is so hard to set and enforce boundaries or standards when you don’t have standards or requirements for yourself before any scenario even presents itself. Often, we find ourselves reacting to situations without boundaries for ourselves. However, the concept of governing decisions, as introduced by Sheri Salata, Oprah's former executive producer, helps us understand how fear and the need for validation can hinder our decision-making process. In today’s Wisdom Point, we’re visiting a snippet of an amazing conversation with Sheri Salata which is available to Mastery and Momentum members in full. Listen to her breakdown of the differences between governing decisions and specific decisions and how to make sure that you are the one making them.  Show Notes:[1:59] - Governing decisions set up the quality of our lives. [3:30] - These are the kinds of things we most readily violate to satisfy somebody else. [4:30] - Specific decisions are the who, what, when, and where of our lives. [5:31] - Who is making decisions for you? Is it you? [6:37] - What does your soul want? Write it down and create your own governing decisions. Links and Resources:Redefining Wealth WebsiteThe Institute of Redefining WealthRedefining Wealth AppPatrice Washington on InstagramMastery and Momentum Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire and use my code WEALTH for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy