After 233 episodes about how to have an amazing relationship, it’s time to ask the obvious question: Why? Let’s turn things on their head for a moment. Perhaps getting into a relationship is actually a bad idea! This week, I give myself permission to be a little jaded and cynical, and to talk about many of the ways that relationships can actually suck. And what you just might want to do instead. Warning: if you’re looking for hope and optimism, then this might not be the episode for you!