Let's talk about that kinkiness in you! Research makes it clear that people who are secure in their relationship are more likely to talk about intimate topics and experience fulfilling sexual lives.  On the other hand, those who worry excessively about their relationship and a parners reaction on a fun, lovely kinky move will always struggle with communicating their true desires. Fears of rejection or of hurting a partner may make it tough to say you don't like certain things in the bedroom, you want to try something new a little on the kinky side, or you're unhappy with frequency. Worries about your partner's reaction could also make it hard to be direct! Assumptions about what your parner may think and what their behavior may be like are unhealthy amigos you must communicate your desires and go for it! Remember this "Your partner cannot read your mind" so being up-front about your needs and desires is a far more effective way to get what you want than hoping your parner can read your mind. It's also especially important to pick the right moment to talk to your parner. I always stress in my shows to communicate with each other, have respect for one another and to be passionate about everything that you do, and I cannot stress enough the words communicate and respect! Enjoy the show and please reach out to [email protected] Be brave, be all that you can be and join me on my show.  We can do this many ways, by telephone, skype or in person.  Jump out of that shell and let loose your wildest desires. LET IT GO BABY!! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/eddie-rodriguez86/message