More dominant, please - the thought going through many receivers minds. The magic of Pegging, in my opinion, is that it is a customizable sexual activity. Pegging can look many different ways depending on the desires and leanings of the people involved. One couple might enjoy a sensual, love-making experience while another might prefer a full-on BDSM scene with restraints, impact play, and humiliation. A desire I see expressed often by receivers in pegging groups on Reddit, and in emails sent to me is for the giver to be more dominant. "How can I get my partner to be more dominant while f*****g me?" "Sometimes I really wish she would just grab me and f**k me and act a little more dominant." "I've asked my partner to be more dominant, but she said she doesn't know how." This is a common desire in the world of pegging. So how can couples best navigate this added aspect to their pegging play? I recorded my thoughts on this subject for you all. The answer is more involved than you would think. Good communication is essential. Knowing what you like and dislike is also important for both givers and receivers. Remember, the willingness to explore is commendable and a true gift to your partner and your relationship! You don't know whether you will like it if you have never tried it, right? Happy Pegging!