Can selfish acts be selfless? Are there times in life when you must be selfish? Sometimes the most difficult choices we make in life seem selfish from the surface, but not from the large picture. The idea of fairness is completely made up by man, and nothing in life MUST be fair. Sometimes we must be selfish in our choices, but that in itself is the most selfless act. Life is all about cost and reward. The greatest rewards in life will cost us the most time, money, or integrity. The burden on these difficult choices is not fair for anyone. Ask yourself the difficult question if I don't make this selfish act will we succeed? I think these selfish acts are hard decisions that take time for others to process. Remember everyone is not going to understand your choices, but that is something we learn to live with. I think we gain a deeper appreciation for life in exchange for this burden of selfless acts in life.  Are we playing a different game of life? Is the idea of fairness made up?  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/samducetv/support