It's 9pm and you're keen as a bean but your partner's having none of it. We've all been there... Be it work, hormones, health or just that you can't be bothered there's a million and one things affecting our sex drives at any given time. So what happens when you and your significant other just can't find a middle ground? Is turning to porn the best way to fill the libido gap in your relationship or is it a break-up waiting to happen? READ MORE Why your sex drive might well increase in your 40s Don't let differences in sex drives kill your relationship 5 ways to bring a dead sex drive back to life CONTACT US Hosts: Rachel Corbett, Samantha X & Dr. Lauren Rosewarne. Producer: Luca Lavigne Ask Samantha X a question: 02 8999 9386.  Or fling us an email: [email protected]  JOIN OUR SEALED SECTION GROUP ON FACEBOOK. You can buy Samantha's books at apple.co/mamamia This show is part of the Mamamia Podcast Network.  This episode was made possible by Porte-à-Vie.