Happy holidays nieces and nephews Your favorite aunties Bridget Kelly and Mandii B talk about “pop psychology” and how it has everyone on the internet in a chokehold over the words: love bombing, gaslighting, narcissism, etc. Spoiler alert, everyone you dislike isn't a narcissist (8:00).  The two talk about: (10:00) the dangers to self-diagnosing without seeking professional guidance, the difference between grandiose arrogance and confidence  (11:00) being indifferent vs having a lack of empathy (17:00) The dangers of over-indulgence / codependency  (23:00) People who gift while centering THEIR desires for YOU (24:00) How to acknowledge your partner’s EFFORTS while also honoring your DESIRES  (30:00) Conflict isn’t always abuse/gaslighting  (32:00) Baiting someone into an argument  (40:00) Everything doesn’t have to be “normalized”  (45:00) Speaking like an HR memo isn’t self-awareness  CONNECT WITH US: 📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/seethethingispod/reels/   📱TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@seethethingispod?lang=en   🗝PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/seethethingispod  🎙ADVERTISE WITH US ON GUMBALL: https://gumball.fm/shows/see-the-thing-is/61781b15b8db6d491d3f4119  —---------—--------- SPONSORS: ZOC DOC: Go to https://zocdoc.com/STTI and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. Then find and book a top-rated doctor today. Many are available within 24 hours."  NAKED WINES: Head to  https://NakedWines.com/STTI  click ‘ Enter Voucher ’ in the top right corner and enter  STTI  for both the code  AND  password to get 6 bottles of wine for  JUST  $39.99 with shipping included - that’s  $100 off  and less than  $7 per bottle See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.