Thank you for tuning into a new episode of Self Care & Chill with Maui. We talk about being single, knowing our worth, standing on our boundaries and not settling. A lot of what we touched will be in my new ebook I am dropping today at www.mauithewriter.com I also took a trip to Scarsdale NY and went to @farmacyforlife so make sure you check them out on instagram for all of their vitamins --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/maui-w/support

A mini episode of motivation. I missed all of you so much. I just wanted to stop by and give you a recap of what has been going on in my life and send you some light. Use the code selflove for a discount at mauithewriter.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/maui-w/support

This episode I talk about if it is okay to tell someone how you want to be loved or should they just know? At what point are we self sabotaging relationships by expecting people to be mind readers? Or should we not have to explain certain things to someone who is interested in us? What are some things that you are not willing to explain to someone "At this big ole age" as you all like to say? lol- You can also tune into this episode on Youtube at Maui The Writer so you can let me know how you...

This episode we discuss not being happy within your relationship and two people putting in the effort to make the relationship work. Being comfortable communicating about what you want and not feeling bad. This is your life make sure you are living the life that you want and not the one that you settled for. Use the code selfcare for a discount at www.thesoftestlife.com and for relationship books www.mauithewriter.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/maui-w/support

I am sending you love if this is your first holiday alone. Somebody loves you and it is okay to surround yourself with people that remind you how loved you are!! Enjoy 50% off the entire website when you use the code BLACKFRIDAY www.thesoftestlife.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/maui-w/support

This episode we talk about having sex too fast. Is there a time limit? What should we look for when dating someone? How do I know of things are moving too fast or if this person is worth my time? I hope you enjoy! Follow on social media at @selfcarexchill @maui_w @thesoftestlife --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/maui-w/support

This episode is for single people who are just tired of being by themselves. I feel you, I understand you and I get it. It will be worth it in the end knowing that you didn’t settle! Use the code LOVE at mauithewriter.com for free shipping on my relationship books --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/maui-w/support

This episode we talk about not feeling considered or appreciated within your relationship. Something that I feel is super important in order for a relationship to prosper and work. We also talk about how lonely and ugly your self love journey can be in the beginning stages when you are trying to figure out who you are. This journey is not about being perfect, it is about making progress to be a better version of who you no longer want to be. Make sure you follow the social media pages...

Today we did a Q&A and just some mini advice and words of encouragement for anyone who has been wasting their time with someone who doesn’t want any tittles. Use code MAUIDARES at Dare To Have Hair for your hair!! Happy self care Sunday! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/maui-w/support

So on this episode we discuss what exactly is cheating, what are the dos and do nots while on a break and guys who are nice but do not want to be in a relationship. Make sure you follow on Instagram at @selfcarexchill and @maui_w --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/maui-w/support

This episode we talk about splitting responsibilities in the household. The bills aren’t my issue, it’s the men who do not realize that they are requiring their women to do all of this housework and still GO TO WORK. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/maui-w/support

The title says it all. Today I am talking about staying in a relationship after your partner has cheated and trying to navigate that relationship. Make sure you follow on Instagram @selfcarexchill and Maui The Writer on YouTube --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/maui-w/support

This episode we talk about getting through feeling alone, not liking who we see in the mirror and learning to feel better about ourselves. Make sure you subscribe to the YouTube Maui The Writer and follow the instagram pages @selfcarexhill and @thesoftestlife --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/maui-w/support

This episode I answer a listener’s question about her relationship she currently has with a man that is married. What should she do? Should she move on or is it okay because he isn’t happy? Make sure you run into this episode. Follow on social media @selfcarexchill and @thesoftestlife

This episode we discuss some things we can work on to make our relationship better and healthier. Make sure you follow on Instagram @selfcarexchill and follow @thesoftestlife

This episode I talk about what my self love journey looked like in the beginning for me, what I learned in some relationships and what made me start it. I hope someone needed to hear this today. Make sure you follow on Instagram @selfcarexchill and @thesoftestlife

This episode is for the ones who are always nice to everyone when they like someone or are dating. Liking people way too fast, doing the most and not thinking of yourself. Meet me in Wilmington De 8/31. Make sure you follow on Instagram @selfcarexchill and @thesoftestlife

Todays episode I talk about making sure you can reciprocate what you require. A lot of people are looking for other people to show up in areas in their life where they lack and looking for void fillers. Being honest and accountable if this is us in relationships and doing the work to change that. Make sure you follow on Instagram @selfcarexchill and @thesoftestlife

This episode we talk about how do we know when it is time to leave someone. Knowing our worth, creating boundaries and not allowing people to treat us how they see fit. Hopefully this is confirmation for someone who has been trying for far too long to make something work with a person who continues to do things to jeopardize everything. Make sure you follow @selfcarexchill and @thesoftestlife on Instagram

On this episode I am talking to the people who are finding it hard to let go of someone because the sex is good or they have caught feelings for someone who they only have been having sex with. Realizing that the standards we have for ourselves should be more than how well someone can have sex with us. Make sure you follow these instagram pages @selfcarexchill and @thesoftestlife

This episode we talk about all of the social media talk we hear about women needing to be this or be that for a man. There are too many posts telling women how to treat a man and not enough statements to help women understand what type of man deserves that type of treatment or helping men understand women more or treat them better. But have no fear, Maui is here and she has an opinion. Make sure you check us out on instagram at @selfcarexchill and my new self love instagram page @thesoftestlife

This is one of my favorite episodes I have did in a while. I went through messages sent to the self care page and many of them were very sad relating to what people are settling for in relationships. On this episode we talk about what we love ourselves more than. I hope someone really needed to hear this today. Check out the instagram page @selfcarexchill and make sure you check out @fitbeads.co and use my code MAUI20 for 20% off your first order of fitbeads.

So you have been talking to someone for months and they still aren’t ready for a relationship? Well here is what I think about wasting your time by allowing someone to string you on. This episode also features our partner @fitbeads.co where you can use my code MAUI20 for 20% off your first order of waist beads.

On todays podcast episode we discuss the people who have sex too fast during the dating stage. YES, you can do what you want with your body but it’s also okay to wait until you’re comfortable. I also have partnered with @fitbeads.co and you can use my code MAUI20 for 20% off your first order of waist beads, you know we love a good discount 💙

This episode we talk about the people who are choosing to be in relationships with people who do nothing for them. The people who are laying next to someone right now who couldn’t help them with an electric bill or the candles they will need when they are in the dark. Let’s rescue these people from the bare minimum.