Rory Uphold is an actress, producer, writer, and comedienne. She is the host of Crimes of the Heart, a love and dating podcast with a true crime twist. Part storytelling and part advice column, Crimes of the Heart helps you navigate dating in the digital age and make you feel less alone in the process. Rory has over 14M+ views on digital shows she’s created and starred in. She has written songs that have played everywhere from Superbowl commercials to critically acclaimed shows like Girls. Rory was one of the inaugural fellows in the Sundance Institute's Episodic Labs and has sold television shows to many of your favorite networks.   Rory has given tons of advice on her podcast Crimes of the Heart, and in this episode, we discuss how the plethora of questions she receives and all her interviews have impacted her own dating and love life. We delve into the landscape of dating, the different dating apps, and these apps are like slot machines.   We talk about what gets in the way of us having the relationship we desire, and how to rewire the story we are playing in our heads. We delve into how dating and Sex are not the same thing. We chat about how to put yourself out there, how much time you need to invest, and how being a woman over a certain age is not a barrier to meeting someone. Rory truly believes that love is out there for anyone and everyone. You can find Rory at @icouldbeblonder. You can find her show Crimes of the Heart here. You can find Amy at @amymarcs. You can find the show at @sexafterpodcast. Sex After is produced by @thechrisderosa. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.