Today's episode features the brilliant Allison Raskin, a New York Times bestselling author, mental health advocate and Emotional Support Lady, offering insights into the intersection of OCD, sexuality, and relationships. She discusses her career evolution, from her comedy YouTube channel "Just Between Us" with Gabe Dunn to her current focus on mental health through platforms like Instagram and Substack. Allison candidly shares her journey managing OCD, emphasizing its broader implications...

In this episode, DB tackles a listener's question on asexuality, exploring whether individuals on the ace spectrum can find joy in sex. Asexuality is a diverse experience, unique to each person who identifies with it. This episode affirms that enjoyment and desire are personal, and asexuality doesn't hinder either. If you're curious about the ace spectrum, this episode is for you! Follow Sex Ed with DB on: Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdb Twitter : @sexedwithdb Threads:...

Have you heard that the Supreme Court will be ruling on Mifepristone accessibility soon but you aren't really sure what the case is all about? This episode is here to help. Jess and Imani from the Boom! Lawyered podcast bring their legal expertise to the show to help us navigate the latest Supreme Court case on abortion pills and what it could mean for the future of reproductive healthcare in America. We break down what the upcoming case truly represents—a battle over reproductive autonomy,...

Nobody should have to navigate the maze of perimenopause without a roadmap! That's why we invited Dr. Rebecca Levy-Gantt, OBGYN, author of the new Perimenopause for Dummies book and DB's mom, to break down this stage of life that's often overlooked. Dr. Levy-Gantt tells us what perimenopause is all about, shares important signs and red flags to watch out for, emphasizes the importance of seeking specialized doctors, and provides tips on preparing for and managing perimenopause. (05:54 -...

Are you ready to be charmed by a couple that is pushing for change and educating the world about LGBTQ+ issues? Meet Jamie and Shaaba! Jamie, the creative force behind the popular YouTube channel JammiDodger, opens up about documenting his transition online and shares valuable tips for young queer folks interested in creating content about their experiences. Meanwhile, Shaaba dives into her journey of coming out as bisexual on the internet and the challenges faced by the bisexual community,...

Are you feeling a bit hesitant about broaching the topic of condoms with your partner? Well, you're not alone, and we've got you covered in this episode! Join DB as we dive into the intricacies of condom conversations between partners, addressing the emotions, debunking misinformation, and exploring how these factors influence the negotiation process. Plus, we shine a spotlight on the numerous perks of using condoms, from preventing STIs to offering a non-hormonal birth control alternative. ...

What if your state and local elections could alter the course of reproductive rights and healthcare access? How can framing abortion protection as a winning campaign strategy shape the political landscape? Meet Jennifer Driver, Senior Director of Reproductive Rights at State Innovation Exchange (SIX). DB and Jennifer delve into the factors contributing to recent pro-choice victories and underscore the pivotal role of abortion in the forthcoming 2024 elections. Join us as we dissect the...

Ever noticed how society kinda dances around the whole periods and menstrual health thing? Well, not at Sex Ed With DB! In this episode, we're diving deep into the world of PERIODS, no holds barred. Take a fun period quiz by DB and amp up your knowledge about your cycle. Let's make talking about periods as chill as chatting about the weather! 🩸✨ Follow Sex Ed with DB on: Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdb Twitter : @sexedwithdb Threads: @sexedwithdbpodcast YouTube: Sex...

Get ready to bust some myths as we pull back the curtain on one of the most misunderstood topics in human sexuality—masturbation. Joined by Dr. Eric Sprankle, acclaimed author and professor of clinical psychology, we're stripping away the stigma, debunking falsehoods and exploring the evolution of sexual psychology. We don't hold back as we take you on a journey from the origin’s of the vibrator to its current status as a self-care tool, and discuss religious perspectives on masturbation and...

Ever wondered how to have orgasms that leave you breathless? Are you curious about how to turn up the volume of your pleasure? DB is here to help! This episode will guide you on how to strengthen your orgasms, stimulate your body with sex toys, and increase pleasure with lube. If you've ever felt like something is a little off with your sexual experiences, this episode is for you. We will also discuss the importance of speaking to a professional when you need it. And don't miss out on the...

Welcome to Season 9! In this special episode, DB sits down with the delightful duo April and Amy from the Shameless Sex podcast. As certified sex educators and founders of the sex toy company Hot Octopus, these two have a wealth of knowledge to share, and their dynamic friendship adds an extra layer of charm to this discussion! This episode takes you behind the scenes of their robust business partnership, and their insightful perspectives on personal pleasure. This episode also gives us a...

In our last re-release between seasons, DB discusses sex and porn addiction with Erica Garza, author of the memoir "Getting Off: One Woman's Journey Through Sex and Porn Addiction." Her writing has appeared in Time, Health, Glamour, Women's Health, and VICE. Born in Los Angeles, she currently lives in Phnom Penh, Cambodia. Check her out at www.ericagarza.com. —— Follow Sex Ed with DB on: Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdb YouTube: Sex Ed with DB Twitter: @sexedwithdb ...

Enjoy this re-release of a Season 5 favorite! DB dissects the intersections of sexuality, spirituality, and religion with Reverend Pleasure. Rev. Pleasure is a Movement Chaplain working to create a culture of sanctity, pleasure and wholeness for Black femmes, girls, and womxn. She works with individuals and communities to heal trauma as a result of patriarchal and religious violence. Follow her on IG @purposefullylj. —— Follow Sex Ed with DB on: Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast ...

Please enjoy one of DB's favorite episodes from the archives as we gear up for Season 9! In this episode, DB speaks with Sabia Wade, the founder of Birthing Advocacy Doula Trainings, For the Village, Inc, Loads of Pride, Logistics, as well as a soon-to-be-published author of their book, Birthing Liberation: How Reproductive Justice Will Set Us Free. They discuss birthing liberation, the future of abortion access, and how Sabia is executing change in reproductive justice to set birthing people...

In the Season 8 Finale, DB chats with the brilliant Sean Saifa Wall, an intersex activist, scholar, and star of the new documentary "Every Body." They explore identity, breaking free from binary, and the importance of broadening our understanding of gender and sex. They also touch on intersex joy as a way to counterbalance trauma. Join for this insightful wrap-up to Season 8!  (0:16:20) - Intersex liberation and new perspectives with age (0:21:20) - Discussing the documentary "Every Body" ...

DB sits down with Winnie, Community Outreach and Training Chair for Stand With Abortion Now (SWAN), to talk revolutionary optimism, punk rock-style activism, TikTok fundraising, and unorthodox strategies to outwit anti-abortion protestors in Orlando, Florida. They dive into SWAN's extremely successful Tiktok presence, why it's resonating, and how to use social media as an effective tool in activist work. Winnie shares more about the ongoing struggle for abortion access in Florida, as the...

DB sits down with Dr. Lexx Brown-James, therapist and sexologist, to shed light on maintaining healthy conflict resolution, intimacy, and communication in a long-term relationship. They also dive into Dr. Lexx's work in the world of sex-positive parenting, unraveling what it means and how to address personal trauma and therapy's role in the journey towards becoming a sex-positive parent. In a world where sex education is often shrouded in fear, Dr. Lexx guides breaks down how provide...

We're thrilled to welcome back Pidgeon Pagonis, a powerhouse in intersex education and advocacy! From their #EndIntersexSurgeries campaign to their continual focus on prioritizing intersex joy, their recent endeavors are nothing short of inspiring. Pidgeon shares more about their activist journey, highlighting the need for self-care to avoid burnout in this work. DB and Pidgeon also discuss the healing power of psychedelics, and Pidgeon's transition from a trauma-focused narrative to one of...

Calling all bi babes! Join us for an amazing conversation with Zachary Zane, author of "Boy Slut." DB and Zach discuss her bisexual awakening, the challenges and privileges that come with being bisexual, and the power of vulnerability in sharing personal stories. Zachary generously shares his journey of understanding his sexuality and the impact of his public persona on his decision to be open about it. The conversation extends to the intricacies of bisexuality and pansexuality, the nuances...

Join us we welcome our favorite guest back to the pod, DB’s mom Dr. Rebecca Levy-Gantt, to talk about all things vaginal health. This episode takes a close look at the prevalence and importance of diagnosing vaginal infections and conditions, which Dr. Levy-Gantt has experienced firsthand through her patients' stories. She emphasizes the importance of in-person diagnosis and enlightens us about the wide age range of her patients and the unique challenges they face. —— (0:14:34) -...

On this episode we welcome the delightful Alayna Joy, lesbian and LGBTQ+ YouTuber and content creator who speaks candidly about her “late bloomer” queer experience. Alayna opens up about the evolution of her queer identity, pandemic-induced gay awakenings, and the importance of centering mental health while embracing your queerness for the first time. It's a conversation that will enlighten, inspire, and hopefully, provide comfort to those who may need it. —— (0:10:31) - Discovering your...

Enjoy a BONUS episode of Curious Sex Ed! In this episode, DB and Mariah tackle the age-old question... how do I reach orgasm? They cover the many factors that can impact one's ability to reach climax, sharing personal anecdotes and discussing various factors that contribute to pleasure. Gain valuable insights and practical advice to help you attain the elusive "big O." For more Curious Sex Ed, check out our show and join the Bestie Crew on Buy Me a Coffee

Listen in as we welcome the award-winning psychologist, sexologist, and professor, Dr. Candice Nicole, for a riveting discussion on her groundbreaking sex research. DB and Dr. Candice explore the fascinating world of sex and pleasure, examining the impact of different partnerships on sexual function. Dr. Candice shares intriguing insights from her research, emphasizing the importance of centering Black people in scientific research for a more inclusive understanding of our sexual selves. Join...

You don't wanna miss this bonus episode! Listen in as DB reads aloud her personal journey of self-discovery and self-pleasure through her Magic Wand masturbation experiment. Listen in to hear about the profound impact that daily Magic Wand use had on her health, wellness, and sexual experience. Prepare to challenge societal norms and embrace the transformative power of pleasure. Don't miss out on the electrifying revelations that await!

Join DB for an enlightening exploration into the wonderful world of kink and fetishes with the brilliant Arielle Greenberg, a seasoned kinkster and author of the upcoming book Super Freaks. They cover a range of topics from positive representations of kink in media, to the intersection of queerness and kink. Arielle even gives DB a kink quiz! Arielle also shares her insights on the most common and least common fetishes, the psychology behind kink, and the magical allure they hold. Don't miss...