00:00 Leah is DONE with shame and excited for period sex! 06:31 How do I get a girlfriend? Leah is willing to fill in as a service Top and desires a femme Top, is exploring steering clear of men on dating apps, she and Wyoh commiserate on the experience of being straight-trained (comphet) bi girls. 15:40 Going from open to polyamorous: past dating baggage plus the realities of time, priorities, and relationship hierarchies. 21:47 Best dating question: “what’s bad about you in a relationship?” Reassurance is normal, building trust, and lessons learned from being a “chill girl” in hookup culture. 29:18 Practicing easy come easy go vibes in a new romantic partnership, noticing her own needs during sex, figuring out in real time with her partners what her body wants, and Wyoh offers scripts for how to communicate in the moment. 45:07 Learning how to navigate jealousy in polyamory, the importance of asking for what you want and allowing people to show up, plus the pitfalls of anticipating reactions. 57:36 Rethinking having kids, dreams of poly community, detached dating defense mechanisms, leaning into comfort and trust as turn-ons. Original Episode from April 2019 | The Woman Who Asks You Out: Leah's Stories Leah’s Update from May 2023 | We’re Open and Queer 🔗 LEAH LINKS | tiktok / instagram ⚡️WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity wyohlee.com/links  🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ANSWER OR ASK A QUESTION | See the question lists and record up to a five minute story at xstoriespodcast.com 🤩 PATREON | Exclusive updates and stories from Wyoh’s bucket list explorations + community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee  SHARE X STORIES Explore (y)our curiosity.  Take care of yourselves. Take care of each other. Offer irresistible invitations. Listen and share to connect. Spread ripples of love.