Scott returns! His poly and BDSM experiences have led him to explore deeper levels of self-care and connection in a new chapter of academia. 00:00 Unexpected depth of a kitchen table poly relationship and handling reintegration after deployments. 08:32 Applying BDSM scene negotiation techniques for comfort, cuddling, and receiving care as a Dom. 16:34 The importance of desire, self-advocacy, asking for what you need, and investing time in exploring receptive anal. 26:29 How discovering himself while having multiple long-term partnerships led to a transition—blowing up his relationship *on purpose.* 32:17 Experiencing casual dating for the first time in adulthood: dating apps vs. meeting people irl, plus wanting to curate romantic experiences for prospective partners. 39:43 How self-care and discovering personal needs goes hand-in-hand with nurturing others. 42:02 How kinksters are better at communication, everyone is kinky, and a dating experiment. 50:11 Exploring poly desires, deep casual intimacy, and changing needs. Original Episode from March 2022 | Disaster Zone Dominant: Scott’s Sex Stories ⚡️WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity wyohlee.com/links  🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ANSWER OR ASK A QUESTION | See the question lists and record up to a five minute story at sexstoriespodcast.com 🤩 PATREON | Exclusive updates and stories from Wyoh’s bucket list explorations + community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee  SHARE X STORIES Explore (y)our curiosity.  Take care of yourselves. Take care of each other. Offer irresistible invitations. Listen and share to connect. Spread ripples of love.