“The host is lovely and clearly knowledgeable as per time and space. But the advice makes me feel sad. Why link the romantic gestures or atmosphere, cuddling, massage and chit-chat with sexual desire? Does a teddy bear make people turned on?? Why expect people, especially men, to simply agree to talk? Talking is crucial. But many simply wouldn’t talk no matter what backflips you perform.
I am starting to suspect it’s the North American approach that makes me sad. I come from Europe and am discovering, while not believing my ears and eyes, just how prevalent the puritanical background is here. Undercover. It’s either people are awkward with simple things like even acting flirty or turning you on with the way they look at you, or simply talking about sex, or it’s the opposite - so much interest in porn and extreme exploration. Where is casual flirt? Where is natural eroticism? Not in-your-eye garters or barely there leggings but flirty, playful, making-you-wonder clothes? Why sex is such a taboo topic? It’s part of us, our lives. Sigh. I am so sorry people suffer.”
Dee4509 via Apple Podcasts ·
Canada ·
07/22/23