Sheryl and her crew discuss Gwyneth Paltrow trying to compliment Black Women only to have it go left. Takeaways The use of the word 'ruthless' to describe black women is problematic and perpetuates negative stereotypes. Black women's strength and confidence often stem from their experiences of oppression and discrimination. Actions and allyship are more important than empty compliments or admiration. Accurate representation of black women in media is crucial to combatting stereotypes and promoting diversity.