Comedian Lev Fer joins Erica Spera this week for more of a "Patreon Style" episode. They debate what boundaries you should have with your exes, if you can still be emotionally available while being friends with your ex, where the line is between needy and narcissistic, and they debate if who's apartment you spend time at more holds the power in the relationship. The end of the episode features a Patreon Preview as well.   Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodcast Follow us on Instagram: Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Lev Fer: instagram.com/levfer // Podcast: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod Email us your questions at: [email protected] or DM us on Instagram **LEAVE A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or you can Email: [email protected] www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support