In this episode of Sisters in Sobriety, Kathleen and Sonia discuss the importance of self-compassion in sobriety and everyday life. They explore the concept of self-compassion, its role in personal growth, and practical tips for implementing self-compassion practices. The conversation highlights the need to treat oneself with kindness, understanding, and forgiveness, and how self-compassion can lead to healthier relationships and boundaries. The episode emphasizes the power of self-compassion in overcoming setbacks and embracing one's humanity. In today's discussion, we tackle essential questions: How do we define self-compassion in the context of recovery? What makes it different from self-indulgence or self-pity? Sonia and Kathleen explore these themes, delving into the psychology behind self-compassion and its impact on healing and growth. They discuss how self-compassion can be a transformative tool in the recovery journey, helping individuals to overcome setbacks and build resilience. Listeners will gain a deeper understanding of key concepts such as the balance between self-compassion and accountability, the role of mindfulness in recognizing self-critical thoughts, and strategies for nurturing a compassionate inner voice. These insights are grounded in real-life experiences and psychological principles, providing listeners with practical and empathetic approaches to integrating self-compassion into their recovery process. Sonia and Kathleen share their own experiences with self-compassion in their sobriety journey and the challenges and victories in practicing self-kindness. By the end of the episode, listeners will have a richer understanding of self-compassion's role in recovery, equipped with strategies and insights to apply in their own journey toward healing and growth. This is Sisters in Sobriety, a podcast brought to you by EverBlume, the support community that helps women change their relationship with alcohol.  Highlights: 00:03:45 | Definition of self-compassion and its importance in sobriety00:05:11 | The struggle of practicing self-compassion00:06:00 | Reflecting on the definition of self-compassion00:07:00 | Viewing mistakes as learning opportunities00:08:00 | Implementing self-compassion and self-care00:09:00 | Importance of forgiveness and understanding in self-compassion00:09:52 | Overcoming self-loathing and trying again00:10:06 | Personal meaning of self-compassion00:09:55 | Questioning the point of trying again after making mistakes00:10:30 | Differentiating between self-pity and self-compassion00:11:13 | Allowing oneself to feel emotions without self-criticism00:12:00 | Taking responsibility without placing blame00:14:41 | Recognizing the significance of self-compassion in life00:16:00 | Understanding accountability in relationships00:19:10 | Setting boundaries based on self-compassion00:20:02 | Identifying and enforcing hard no's in relationships00:20:54 | The importance of self-compassion in relationships00:21:48 | The role of mindfulness in self-compassion00:22:46 | Practical tips for cultivating self-compassion00:25:00 | The significance of self-compassion in sobriety00:30:00 | The challenge of practicing self-compassion00:32:00 | Understanding the humanness and collective nature of self-compassion00:32:20 | None of us are perfect, showing compassion to ourselves Links: Sisters In Sobriety | EverBlume WebsiteSisters In Sobriety | EverBlume InstagramSisters In Sobriety | EverBlume Email Kathleen’s Website *Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcast*Kathleen’s LinkedInKathleen’s Instagram