Buying pens, new planners, and new notebooks to get organized will do nothing if you don't sit down and actually do the work you plan to do in them. Most of the time sis, it’s the things that we put off, the things that we feel the most resistance to…those are the things that end up changing our lives. Sometimes you just don't feel like it, and we get it. But if you wait to feel good, and you wait to feel motivated enough to finish...it will never get done. Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! Learn a...

How would future you feel about the decisions you make each day? How would she respond to the issues happening in your life right now? Sometimes when we need answers, we look externally. We ask our family members and friends for advice. We need someone to motivate and inspire us. But the reality is, if we just took a minute to get quiet, and shut out the outside noise...we have the answers that we need. That if we could only take the time to imagine what a future version of ourselves would...

Stop putting limits on yourself sis. Stop putting limits on your abilities, on your ideas, limiting your creativity, and putting a cap on what you think you can do. Better yet, stop putting a cap on what you think God can do. There is no limit, on the dreams that you have sis. Just because someone else's life looks big and grand, that doesn't mean you can't have big and grand too. Don't let negative thoughts and negative beliefs trick you out of the dreams, visions, and goals God has placed...

When you don't know the answers to everything in your life, anything is possible in your life. When you feel lost and not sure about your next move, it can be frustrating. But it's okay to feel a little lost sometimes boo. Sometimes we know exactly what we want but we have no clue how or when we're going to get there. One thing is for sure, a season of uncertainty will always bring forth a season of clarity. Just keep praying, waiting, and working....until you get there. Thanks To Today’s...

You may not be at the exact place you want to be in life right now, but you certainly aren't where you started. Sometimes we get so focused on the future that we forget to appreciate our past. It took a lot for you to get yourself to this moment in your life sis, and for that you should feel really proud. Remember where you came from sis, and do not ever forget where you started. Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! Listen to "See The Thing Is" hosted by Bridget Kelly & Mandii B! Subscribe on...

You can either pay now for what you want sis, or end up paying for it in the future. The best math you can learn is how to calculate the future cost of a current situation. We all want our lives to look a certain way, but aren't always willing to be disciplined enough to get it. We want to reach new levels within our business, our careers, our families, and even our personal lives but we don't like the discomfort of getting there. It's not the first time you will be uncomfortable and it...

Stop telling everybody your business boo. Set some boundaries, and stop being vulnerable with people who do not deserve your vulnerability. You have to have discernment about who gets to experience the best parts of you. When you start sharing all of your personal business with people, you start involving them in things that they aren't even qualified to be involved in. Learn how to stand on your own two feet, without needing to hear what someone else has to say, or caring what they think,...

Although we'd all like to be wined & dined and for someone else to take care of us for the rest of our lives....the peace of mind you get when you have your own is unmatched sis. Whether that be your own place, your own car, your own bank account, your own opinions, your own ideas, and even your own identity. Something that no one can take away from you. Do not ever be out in these streets, and the only things you have are the things that people gave you. You can be vulnerable and soft...

We don't believe in coincidences sis. It is not by luck that you are here, doing your thing. Everything happens in life, for a specific time & a specific reason. There is always a plan at play. So when you find yourself in a season of getting blessing after blessing, or if you're in a tough season and just trying to figure it out. Remember...it was meant to happen, because you were meant to happen. Don't forget that.... Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! Try out the Fits Everybody Collection at...

Stop waiting for a specific moment, time, or place in your life to feel special. Your party does not have to stop because there is no one there to celebrate. In every case, you will always be the best company you will ever have. So start treating yourself like you are the moment sis. Like you are the special occasion. You will see that the more you start treating yourself like you are the special occasion in your life, the less you will wait for others to do so. Thanks To Today’s...

A lot of us are getting overwhelmed when we try to focus on everything, all at the same time. Then we end up overthinking it, and end up doing nothing at all. But it's simple sis. If you could focus on one thing for the next 6 months to a year, what would life look like for you? The problem is, we're all in a hurry trying to get "there", and we're trying to run towards all the things we want to do instead of just taking one simple step at a time. You will get there sis. But only if you shut...

This week we're answering more of your questions! Ashley gives some solid advice on how to get revenge on someone who has hurt you, cheating & infidelity, and letting go of trying to control others. She talks not spending so much time caring about what others think, and learning how to listen to your own voice as you create the life you want, and enjoying that life no matter what is happening around you. Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! Today’s episode is sponsored by EarnIn! Make everyday...

Stop stressing boo. You do not have to have all the answers right now. Some parts of your life will make sense, and other parts still need work...and that's okay. Sometimes when we are in a season of searching, and we don't know what to do next we feel stuck, frustrated, and overwhelmed. But you have to take life one day at a time sis. Just keep doing the next best thing, for your job, your careers, your goals and your dreams...and you will see that things always tend to work themselves...

Today's episode is hands down our favorite episode to date! In this very special episode, and for the first time ever on the podcast, Ashley is sitting down with her Dad. This podcast is the product of many questions and conversations Ashley has had over the years with her Dad. It was because he pushed her (& continues to push!) to keep finding her answers, and throwing her ideas out into the world, that we are even here today. If you are missing your Dad today, maybe you're at odds,...

Time to check in! Are you on track with your goals this year? Are you burnt out, or maybe need to pivot? Remember, the more you grow and change, the more your dreams will grow and change. This week Ashley takes us through her goal setting (& executing) process, and how to build a life around your goals, and not your goals around your life. Having some control over your life, and not just drifting wherever life takes you. The only person that can make things happen for yourself sis...is...

There is always something to be thankful for sis. Even in the things that don't work out, the things that worry you or bother you...there is always something to be grateful for. Because what you think, is what you see. If you keep your mind in a bad place, that is where it will stay. No matter how good life may be going, or if you're in a tough season...challenges will always present themselves. But it's how you choose to look at those challenges, how you choose to talk about those...

Change the energy around sis. Fill your life with the people and the things that make you a big deal. People that don't play with you or about you. There are people in your life that genuinely, authentically, and deeply love you...just for who you are. So why are you so pressed about the people that don't? Why keep making space, for people, for things in your life, that no longer serve you? People that no longer uplift you? Stop giving life to something that should have died out a long time...

You asked, and she's answering! Ashley answers your questions, and shares her experience with being afraid to take new opportunities, working through fear and anxiety, how to deal with negative family members, and much more. She talks how to let go of things that no longer serve you, taking small steps to create something meaningful, and even shares some great advice she got from a therapist! Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! Today’s episode is sponsored by BetterHelp! Give online therapy a try at...

You have to know how much you're worth, and not be afraid to ask for the things that you want. Other people, jobs, companies, and brands have no problem telling you what they want. Stop being scary, and start telling others what you want too. Reciprocity, is how we're moving sis. Accommodations require accommodation. You cannot continuously pour into everything and everybody, and nothing is pouring into you. It is important to serve others, but you are also not a public water fountain....

Why do you do what you do sis? Are you here to educate, to serve, to teach something, to lead by example, to change your life, to change your families life...why do you chase the dream? Or is it for likes, downloads, having a K next to your posts on social media, to be trendy, and popping for everybody else? Being recognized for your gift is complimentary sis, not mandatory. But if you stay focused, and keep going, and stop comparing where you measure up to others....the gift that you have...

There will be times in our lives where we have tons of friends, our calendar is full of events, and our lives feel full. There is a reason for that season. But there will also be times where our lives where it's just us. We don't have a lot of friends, we don't relate anymore to the people we used to relate to, and we feel separated. We feel isolated, and there is a reason for that season too. With separation, comes elevation sis. Your growth is not a group project. Sometimes it will take a...

Sometimes we will find ourselves in a season of uncertainty. We don't know what's next, we don't know what the outcome will be to a certain situation, we're not sure if our prayers will be answered. We get upset, and frustrated, and even disappointed because things aren't going the way that we planned. But good things take time sis, and God would never bring you this far, to only bring you this far. Sometimes while we're trying to figure it out, it's already been worked out, and we have to...

When you keep a plant in a small pot for too long, you stunt it's growth. Same goes for you sis. If you stay in the same place too long, in the same mindset, same routine, around the same people, you stunt your growth. Sometimes you have to change the pot, change the soil, change the environment....to change your life. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit...

Well well well...if it isn't SEASON 6 gracing us with her presence! Welcome back boo, we missed you!!!! (for real, for real) The last few years have been filled with ups and downs, trials and triumphs, and sis....you did that. But this season is personal. This era is personal. And you can't afford to move how you used to move, think how you used to think, or act how you used to act. It's time to do something different. Whatever you did up until this point, good job....but what else you got?...

Miss you boo! Popping in to remind you of our new show coming out on Monday, January 9th! Subscribe Now To The Good News Podcast! An AshMedia Network Production… Click here to subscribe to The Good News podcast now on all audio platforms or wherever you get your podcasts! Streaming new episodes on January 9th. Get Your Podcast Merch! Get your podcast merch here at shopslaygirlslay.com ! Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow...