My guest today is someone I’ve waited four months to speak to, mistake on my side by the way, we just didn’t coordinate very well. But four months ago Instagram, for once, showed me something I liked, so I clicked. It was a video about a relationship coach speaking about how women do certain things in a relationship, and I found myself nodding vigorously. Like yes, absolutely I feel this is what I have gone through, and so I clicked for more content, and I was head-banging all the way through. Until I finally said I’m going to follow that person. I have to admit almost every single piece of content she puts online is so well thought through, and is valid in a very interesting way, at least to me, so I thought maybe you guys should get introduced. My guest today is Sarah Dawn Moore. Sarah Dawn Moore is a dating and relationship coach turned content creator. She combines practical evolutionary psychology, behaviour modification and gender dynamics, to uncover and reverse the unhealthy patterns and dynamics that cause the most discord between men and women. Sarah has coached hundreds of people and has over 1.5 million online followers. Listen as we discuss: 03:00 - What’s the problem? 08:00 - Speaking like a man 12:30 - What do women know? 15:00 - My journey 18:00 - Father figure Vs Bad boy 23:30 - Let men be men 32:00 - Managing expectations 34:00 - First love 37:30 - Trust issues 41:30 - Probabilities and affirming bias 44:00 - Taking a step back and breaking up with your patterns 47:30 - Beauty and the Beast 52:00 - Being nice and being good 54:00 - Transactional love 56:00 - The drama queen 58:30 - Peace and insecurity 01:05:00 - State your needs at the start 01:09:00 - Fatherhood and Ali 01:11:30 - A safe space Vs emasculation 01:15:00 - What do men really want? 01:17:00 - The chase Connect with Sarah Dawn Moore on Instagram @sarahdawnmoore  and learn more about her work here. YouTube: @mogawdatofficial Instagram: @mo_gawdat LinkedIn: /in/mogawdat Website: mogawdat.com Don't forget to subscribe to Slo Mo for new episodes every Saturday. Only with your help can we reach One Billion Happy #onebillionhappy