Bela has a wonderful conversation with Relationship Maven Dr. Abby Medcalf. She is a psychologist, author, podcast host and TEDx speaker who has helped thousands of people think differently so they can create connection, ease and joy in their relationships (especially the one with yourself)! With over 35 years of experience, Abby is a recognized authority and sought-after speaker at organizations such as Google, Apple, AT&T, Kaiser, PG&E, American Airlines and Chevron and she’s been a featured expert on CBS and ABC news, and has been a contributor to the New York Times, Women’s Health, Psychology Today, Well+Good and Bustle. They talk about: The number one problem in relationships (and it's not what you think!) The importance of identifying and clarifying your own needs and standards in a relationship What trust in a relationship is built on  What boundaries should be based on how to communicate them EFFECTIVELY Collaborative questions can deepen understanding and connection in conversations Giving others the benefit of the doubt and seeking clarification before making assumptions This is a must listen if you want to gain invaluable insights and guidance to improve your relationship and create more fulfilling connections with your partner. Dr. Abby is truly a gem! Website: https://abbymedcalf.com Newly Released Book: Boundaries Made Easy; Your Roadmap to Connection, Ease and Joy For more free tips and up to date information, click here to register for the Smart Dating Academy free newsletter!   https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/contact Follow us on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/smartdatingacademy/