Do you feel that choosing on purpose how to show up in feminine energy when you are dating - as opposed to just doing what you feel a "natural" pull towards - would be "playing games"?  In this episode I address a concern that I sometimes hear about feminine energy - that it would be "playing games" to let the man take lead or to not be overly available on the phone for instance.  I share my thoughts on what "playing games" means and why shifting into feminine energy is not about playing games, but choosing behaviors that feel better to you and in many cases also work better.  I also tell you what I DO consider to be playing games, so you can see the contrast.  To book a free 45 min consult call with me:  https://calendly.com/laerke/45min