Episodes
In the penultimate episode in the series, Lotte and Stu are joined by Leon, a single adoptive Dad to a 5 year old. Leon adopted his son a year ago. They discuss Leon’s adoption journey, therapeutic parenting vs.Leon’s traditional Jamaican parenting values and how important his support network is. Lotte and Stu catch up about their plans for a Sylvanian family exchange programme for same sex families. LINKS: https://themodernfamilyshow.co.uk/ https://www.facebook.com/groups/154867988479296/...
Published 07/06/20
Lotte and Stu are joined by Linda Riley, the publisher of DIVA magazine, and Sophia, one of Linda’s teenage twins. Sophia talks about growing up having two mums, how it is at school and what advice she would have for LGBTQ+ families with younger children. Linda discusses what she has learnt from her daughters, how mindsets have changed from when Linda had the twins and how it is being a parent to...
Published 06/29/20
In this special Father’s Day edition Lotte and Stu are joined by the Oscar winning, writer and director, Dustin Lance Black. Dustin and his husband, Tom Daley had their son, Robbie Ray, two years ago via surrogacy in California. Dustin discusses their journey to surrogacy, the differences between the UK and the US laws, his and Tom’s parenting roles, the decision to keep Robbie Ray out of the press and the importance of Pride.   See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Published 06/22/20
This week on Some Families, Lotte and Stu are joined by Annabelle Avis, a foster parent from Swindon. Annabelle and her wife have been fostering since 2013. They currently have 3 children in their care. Annabelle is a big advocate for LGBTQ+ fostering. She discusses the training you receive as a foster carer, changing mindsets and myths, and the importance of the first night in a new home for a child. LINKS: Five Rivers Fostering...
Published 06/15/20
This week on Some Families, Lotte and Stu chat to the fabulous Mrs Kasha Davis from Ru Paul’s Drag Race about the dynamics of being a step-parent and a drag queen. Kasha is married to her husband, who has two daughters from his previous relationship, and discusses her parenting role, the wider family dynamic and how the drag community has provided a sense family for many young queer people.   See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Published 06/08/20
This week on Some Families Lotte and Stu are joined by Kym and Jade, from East London. Kym and Jade have a two year old. They discuss the difficulty they had finding a black donor as a bi-racial couple, why some women don’t want to carry and how they discuss having same sex parents to their son. Lotte and Stu catch up about lock down life.   See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Published 06/01/20
This week on Some Families, Lotte and Stu talk to Michael and Paul Atwal-Brice, who are adoptive dads from Yorkshire. Paul and Michael have two sets of identical twins. The eldest twins, Levi and Lucas, have severe autism and epilepsy. They discuss being foster parents, having children with disabilities and how being a same sex couple has taken a back seat.   See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Published 05/25/20
We join Lotte and Stu, still in lockdown, who have some questions from the Some Families community. They cover how to broach the conversation about having two mums or two dads with your kids, their parenting landmarks, making the right decision when going through the adoption process and the pressure to perfect the role being a gay parent.   See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Published 05/18/20
This week in Some Families, Lotte and Stu are joined by Zoey and Kelly, from ‘Our Transitional Life’. They have been married for nearly 12 years and have two children. Zoey came out as transgender on New Years Eve 2019 and since they have started their blog, ‘Our Transitional Life’. They discuss how they approached and communicated it to their children. How the roles have and haven’t changed and what labels mean within a family dynamic.  Contact: [email protected]   See...
Published 05/11/20
This week the hosts interview each other on how their parenting journeys have developed since the start of the podcast. Whilst still in lockdown, Stu records his interview in a circus tent and Lotte shares an instagram faux pas. Stu talks about being a father of 3 and how Covid has halted the adoption process. Lotte talks about being the other mother, what that meant whilst her wife was pregnant, and what sort of mother she wants to be for her daughter.  Contact:...
Published 05/04/20
This week the Some Families hosts catch up with Mike Wooller. Mike talks about growing up with two mums in the 90s, his experience at school and how having same sex parents affected his own coming out. The hosts discuss Stu’s son wearing a dress, celebrating identity and gay agendas. We want to hear from you... Get in touch and tell us what you'd like to hear more about @somefamiliespod on twitter, facebook & instagram or email [email protected]   See acast.com/privacy for...
Published 04/27/20
In this week’s episode Lotte talks to Riyadh Khalaf, YouTuber, podcaster, documentary maker and the Future Dad. Riyadh explores the idea of being a father and what it means to be gay, how relinquishing control can be difficult for queer parents and what he’s learnt from being the proud owner of Claire the cat. Lotte and Stu discuss role models, their coming out stories and how it can affect parenting. For information regarding your data privacy, visit acast.com/privacy
Published 04/20/20
We join Lotte and Stu this week in our remote recording studio as they talk about Stu’s conversation with Holly Ryan, a single lesbian mum of two, and her journey to becoming a mum through IUI. Holly was raised by a single dad, who gave her the confidence to do it alone. Lotte and Stu discuss the benefits of being a single parent and how they are both managing parenthood this week. For information regarding your data privacy, visit acast.com/privacy
Published 04/12/20
This week we listen to Stu’s chat with TwoDads.U.K, Michael and Wes, fathers of three; two via surrogacy and one from a previous relationship. Michael and Wes talk about the relationship they have with their surrogate, preparing yourself for every possibility when it comes to fertility treatments and the reforms on the Surrogacy Arrangements Act. Stu and Lotte catch up on the good old fashioned telephone and learn about surrogacy and talk changing mindsets when it comes to heteronormative...
Published 04/06/20
Lotte talks about her IUI journey, the emotional and physical impacts. Stu shares an update on his family and they are joined in the studio by Producer (and Producer on this show!) Kirsty Hunter. Kirsty talks about her journey through IVF and the decision to be the birth mother. We want to hear from you... Get in touch and tell us what you'd like to hear more about @somefamiliespod on twitter, facebook & instagram or email us at [email protected] For information regarding...
Published 03/30/20
This week Stu shares some very exciting life changing family news and then Lotte and Stu catch up with Charlie Condou, actor and Dad of two. Charlie’s family is made up of Charlie, his husband Cameron and Catherine their children’s biological Mum. Charlie talks about the decision to co-parent, how it works and why being a gay parent is no different to being a straight patent. For information regarding your data privacy, visit acast.com/privacy
Published 03/23/20
Stu talks emotional labour, impertinent questions and raising boys with Comedian & Author of 'The Other Mother' Jen Brister… Meanwhile Lotte explores whether she wants to be pregnant herself, and what having a baby herself would mean for her family dynamic. We want to hear from you... Get in touch and tell us what you'd like to hear more about @somefamiliespod on twitter, facebook & instagram For information regarding your data privacy, visit acast.com/privacy
Published 03/16/20
Lotte and Stu hear from Niall, a TV producer-turned stay-at-home Dad. He talks about being the Daddy at Mummy's group, how sometimes kids just need a squidgy hug and who's called what in their house. Also our hosts discuss the importance of having differently gendered role models for their kids, as they admit their inexperience in matters of the opposite sex. For information regarding your data privacy, visit acast.com/privacy
Published 03/09/20
Some Families is hosted by Lotte Jeffs, an author, journalist and reformed magazine editor, and Stu Oakley a film publicist who thought he was used to dealing with divas until he had toddlers. Lotte, a mum via donor conception, and Stu, a dad via adoption, will be sharing their own experiences as queer parents, chatting to a plethora of guests who in turn discuss their journeys to parenthood through an LGBTQ+ lens. For information regarding your data privacy, visit acast.com/privacy
Published 03/02/20
Some Families, the UK’s first LGBTQ+ parenting podcast series, will break down queer parenting myths and answer questions for those thinking about parenthood. Hosts Lotte Jeffs and Stu Oakley will be sharing their own experiences as queer parents and chatting to a plethora of guests. For information regarding your data privacy, visit acast.com/privacy
Published 02/20/20