When we feel insecure in our romantic relationship we may become prone to controlling behavior. Controlling behavior, either from you or your partner, will ruin your relationship. . We may be controlling because we fear our romantic partner will abandon us. We may be controlling because this is our nature. We may be controlling because we fear our partner may cheat on us.  Instead of trying to gain control of your partners thoughts, feelings, or behaviors, you need to gain control of your own. Spiritually connected relationships often have to deal with control issues too. During this broadcast we will give examples of controlling behavior in relationships and give you some guidance on how to get control of your own thoughts and behaviors.