Lloyed Lobo is the co-founder of Boast.ai and the author of Wall Street Journal best-selling book From Grassroots to Greatness. After escaping the Gulf War as a child and seeing the power of community in helping navigate impossible situations he ended up on a path of entrepreneurship and community building. He is a husband and the father of three kids. In this episode we discuss: His childhood as a Gulf War refugee His mother's influence on his entrepreneurship Losing one of his twins The power of community in raising a family Positive discipline and other parenting frameworks How his daughter helped him overcome depression Mistakes and sacrifices as a Dad Rapid fire! — Where to find Lloyed Lobo - LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lloyedlobo/ - Twitter: https://twitter.com/lloyedlobo - His Book: https://FromGrassrootstoGreatness.com   Where to find Adam Fishman - Newsletter: https://startupdadpod.substack.com/ - Newsletter: https://www.fishmanafnewsletter.com - LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ - Twitter / X: https://twitter.com/fishmanaf - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ — In this episode, we cover: [1:30] Welcome and Introduction [1:59] Professional background [5:34] Childhood as a refugee [12:23] Current family [22:35] Decision to start a family [31:32] Losing a twin child [37:29] Most surprising thing about being a Dad? [41:00] Which kid is like which parent? [42:54] Most frustrating thing about being a Dad? [43:43] Parenting Frameworks [49:57] An area where Lloyed and his wife don’t align [52:36] What is something you had to give up to be a Dad? [54:35] What is one mistake you made as a Dad? [1:00:11] Follow along with Lloyed [1:02:38] Rapid fire round — Show references: Lloyed’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lloyedlobo/ Task Rabbit: https://www.taskrabbit.com/ Lloyed’s book, From Grassroots to Greatness: https://www.lloyedlobo.com/ Melatonin gummies: https://www.amazon.com/OLLY-Occasional-Melatonin-L-Theanine-Blackberry/dp/B07H8NZZJB/ Boast:https://boast.ai/ Traction: https://www.tractionconf.io/ Highway of death (Kuwait): https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Highway_of_Death Gulf War: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gulf_War Eye of the Tiger: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=btPJPFnesV4 Rambo: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0462499/ Sylvester Stallone: https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000230/ Arnold Schwarzenegger: https://www.schwarzenegger.com/ Cocomelon: https://cocomelon.com/ RRR soundtrack: https://music.apple.com/us/album/rrr-original-motion-picture-soundtrack/1619745392 Tesla Model x: https://www.tesla.com/modelx My Wife and Kids: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0273855/ CCRM: https://www.ccrmivf.com/colorado/ccrm-colorado-denver-office/ The Score Takes Care of Itself: https://www.amazon.com/Score-Takes-Care-Itself-Philosophy/dp/1591843472 — Production support for Startup Dad is provided by Tommy Harron at http://www.armaziproductions.com/ Episode art designed by Matt Sutherland at https://www.mspnw.com/