Episodes
As expo season draws to a close this year, we have it kicking right back up in January with X3 and the AVNs! I bring on longtime adult industry veteran and cam model, Sterling, onto the show to share her expertise on how to conquer adult expos. We break down the major four expos in North America; the AVNs, X3, XBIZ and EXXXOTICA. We go over who each event is for, what to prepare and what to expect at each event. We also go over safety precautions, cost breakdown if you are coming from out of...
Published 11/19/23
I've got a great episode lined up for y'all today! This week, I'm bringing on adult porn actress, Mimi Oh, onto the show to speak about starting her adult career in the middle of her transition. Mimi shares with us what it's like to start her career with such timing (why midway throughout her transition and not wait til after?), socially transitioning and physically transitioning and gives many pointers on what's worked best for her in her transition journey. We also dabble into the topic...
Published 11/12/23
We've got an interesting take on today's episode. I was inspired by a recent blog post by fellow content creator and FSSWer, McKenna King, on anon accounts. If you're unaware of what anon accounts are, they are anonymous accounts usually on Twitter/X which are used for sharing memes, satire, and overall, lightheartedness. On the flip side, it can be used to share some hard truths and vulnerabilities in the industry. Because our industry is so nuanced, we need a natural release, an outlet of...
Published 11/05/23
***TRIGGER WARNING: Mention of underage sex work*** I have a highly fan requested episode this week on a very niche topic that I am excited to explore with you all! I am bringing on content creator and former sugar baby, Amina V, on the show this week to speak about her experience as a sex worker in Japan. Amina opens up the conversation with her story of how she got to Japan in the first place. She briefs us on what is known as being an "idol" in Japan - an interesting phenomena that is...
Published 10/29/23
***TRIGGER WARNING - Mention of assault and attempted murder*** We haven't had an episode in a while that was fully dedicated to safety measures for sex workers so when this week's guest, Amy Taylor, contacted me to hop on the show with her compelling story, I had to give her the throne. Amy is a full service sex worker based in NYC who's had an extensive amount of experience in the biz. Amy is no stranger to starting out her career with some questionable decisions early on but through...
Published 10/22/23
This is Part 2 of my conversation about breast augmentation! As we all know, a lot of us consider or have considered getting breast augmentation surgery. We've spoken about it at length last week on things to consider, doing your research, pre and post-op care and more with the lovely Caitlyn Brooks. But I wouldn't be the podcaster that I am without at least discussing the ugly side of the coin: we're talking about how breast surgeries can go horribly wrong. I invite creators and cam models,...
Published 10/15/23
A very highly-anticipated episode that you all had requested! Yes - this week we are speaking all about breast augmentation or breast implant surgery. I had many folks chiming in to speak about their experiences but ultimately went with Caitlyn Brooks to chat about her journey in why she decided to go under the knife. This is Part 1 of a 2-parter episode on breast augmentation and this specific episode will go over the particulars in terms of what factors to consider before getting implants,...
Published 10/08/23
Very excited to release this episode with one of my friends, Ciara, who I've known since our baby poler days back in 2016! It's been so lovely and awe-inspiring to watch this girl grow. Ciara is a multi-award-winning international feature who tours all across North America and whom is known for her outstanding feature shows. Ciara started off as a stripper in Vancouver, Canada and has since then, worked her way up the ranks, like her mentor and predecessors before her like legends, Justice...
Published 10/01/23
This episode has been a long time coming and after some technical difficulties during the first round and some major anxiety, I have gotten the group together to record this fantastic episode on what's happening in the east coast of the USA. You might've heard an earlier episode this season on the decriminalization front in Vermont with Misha Montana (Episode #170) and you can think of this episode as a response/part 2 continuation of that conversation. On today's episode, I invite David...
Published 09/25/23
***TRIGGER WARNING: Mention of border detainment, rape and sexual assault.*** Very excited to chat about a topic that has been on my mind lately and I'm really glad that our guest this week, Nina Lira, a FSSWer based in Frankfurt, Germany, materialized and came into my line of sight. Nina has spent an extensive time living in Paris, France, and has embarked on many successful international tours in Canada, the USA, and Europe. Nina brings to us her years of expertise in the field, detailing...
Published 09/17/23
A lot of you (including myself!) are solo content creators. We make all of our own content and are responsible for the storyboarding, lighting, editing, audio...and the list goes on! Or perhaps you collaborate with other creators and make your own content to diversify what's on on your roster. Whatever your reason is, it is really helpful to hear some expert advice and tips from one of the pros and that's why I brought solo creator and clip artist, Bea York, onto the show to speak about this...
Published 09/10/23
WOOT! New episodes are officially back on a weekly basis and to kick things off this fall, I am bringing on longtime creator, Seska Lee, onto the show. Seska brings on decades of experience in the adult industry and kink scene. Seska utilizes and embraces her age and we have an intimate discussion on what it's like to age through an industry which relies on our bodies and what changes she's gone through. We speak about the different phases of sex work she's participated in over the years and...
Published 09/03/23
We are throwing it WAY back to Season 1 with Hamed Raidd, an adult creator based in Vancouver, Canada. My early episodes still give me a lot of cringe so please bear with me! New episodes are coming NEXT WEEK on Sunday, September 3rd so subscribe and stay tuned til then! --- We have our very first gay-identifying male sex worker on the show today – please welcome Hamed Raidd! It’s so interesting to hear of an individual with so many contradicting backgrounds and layers: identifying as gay,...
Published 08/27/23
Roll your eyes all you want about phone sex but it's still around. I know what you're thinking. "Really? Those cheesy commercials from the 90s still exist?". I was just as surprised as you are and our guest this week, Sultry Sitara from NiteFlirt, is here to diminish those assumptions. Sitara joins us all the way from the East Coast of the USA to tell us all about NiteFlirt. She works as a phone sex operator and shows the ropes of how it all goes down. From breaking down pricing  structures...
Published 08/20/23
Enjoy this episode from Season 3 with esteemed guest, Elizabeth Weisz, a fellow FSSWer who gives us some insight on agency work vs. independent work. --- Myself, Carly David of PS: Group, and adult performers, Siri Dahl and Lexi Luna, are pitching an explosive panel on sex worker marketing for the mainstream conference, SXSW. Registration for voting is NOW OPEN from August 8th - 20th and we would greatly appreciate your vote! Please register and vote and the link below - we can use all the...
Published 08/13/23
A re-air! Giving you some of the most popular episodes from previous seasons until the summer is over! New episodes starting in September. --- Okay, everyone. I'd like to introduce you to the CUTEST guest I have ever hosted on the show. I am so happy to have interviewed the cutesy Leana Lovings onto the show! Leana is a cam girl who also just recently journeyed into the world of porn - currently #65 and rising the charts on PornHub! We begin our conversation about her roots and upbringing...
Published 08/07/23
Friends, it's been a minute since we've had a bonus episode! Not since...2021, I think? As you know, all of my bonus episodes post-2022 are available up on my Patreon. However, it's summer and I thought I'd give you a little treat! This week's episode was from my recent stint guest lecturing at Florida State University to their Human Sexuality class on the topic of Dissecting Sex Work: A Human Rights and Labour Issue. I guest lecture typically once in the spring semester and once in the fall...
Published 07/30/23
Enjoy this throwback episode to 2022 with Alison Rey! New episodes coming soon at the end of the summer. Folks, I am so stoked to bring on this week's guest onto the show! If you haven't heard of Alison Rey, she is a longstanding adult performer and producer in the industry who will be giving us an insight on the porn industry. Alison shares with us her story on how she got into porn, having the choice to say no to scenes you don't want to do, challenging certain storylines in porn and how...
Published 07/23/23
I've been so excited to record this fan-requested episode! Home ownership was always a goal of mine as a child and I'm stoked to share the passionate discussion with cam model, Izzi, who's also equally passionate about this conversation! I had plans to bring on a mortgage specialist onto the show for ethical responsibility but after going through 7 of them ghosting me or bailing out due to the pressure from financial institutions and banks, I decided to run this episode as it was long overdue...
Published 07/16/23
***TRIGGER WARNING: Mention of sexual assault at the 40 minute mark.*** A new topic on the podcast? Like, BRAND NEW. There is so much focus on domination and dominatrixes in our industry that it was finally time to shed some light on being a professional submissive. I speak to Stephanie Parent, a professional submissive who used to work in a commercial dungeon in Los Angeles. Stephanie shares with us how she got into being a submissive, learning the ropes (literally and figuratively) on the...
Published 07/09/23
I've been enjoying learning about the legal brothel system in Nevada, the only place in the USA where Sex work is legalized. Having interviewed legal courtesans in the past, I thought I'd switch gears on this week's episode and interview a brothel owner instead. What are the hoops that is involved in ownership? How do you get a coveted license? I had the pleasure of interviewing Madam Bella Cummins of Bella's Hacienda Ranch in Wells, NV. Bella is the owner of one of the longest-running...
Published 07/02/23
As we all might know, pornography has been traditinally directed by men, produced by men, and consumed by men. With so many different categories and niches in porn coming out, why don't they cater to what women and queer folk actually want? I invite Electra Rayne, the founder of Queer Crush, onto the show this week to speak about this very topic. Electra is a content creator, director and talent in porn, and a legal courtesan in the state of Nevada. From early on, she knew that she had wanted...
Published 06/25/23
Back on schedule and super excited to bring on my fellow PS: Group colleague, Sydney Screams, onto the show this week! Sydney is a plus-size content creator and has been in the biz for over a decade. She started off on the other side of the camera as a boudoir photographer until she decided to take the plunge and be the muse. From there, she grew her fanbase and continues to make niche fetish content like lipstick, vore and feet fetishes. Sydney also identifies as a plus-size model or BBW and...
Published 06/18/23
Sorry for the 3-week delay! I am BACK this week forever since my wedding and mini moon are over and now I can finally get back to producing and recording episodes! This week is all about longevity in the industry...but how do you go about doing it? I speak with Bobby St. James, a content creator, FSSWer, erotic masseuse, actor and YouTuber. He has been in the adult industry doing for 38 years - yes, you read that right - and I ask him what his secret is to being successful in our...
Published 06/11/23
I always get excited when I hear of places around the world who are actively fighting the decriminalization of sex work. Here in Canada, we are fighting our own fight to contest one of our archaic bills but of course, without being attached to a political group or politician, the process can take much longer when going at it alone. So when Misha Montana reached out to me to let me know that she was working with local lobbyist, David Mickenberg, on the case, I was thrilled and obviously had to...
Published 05/14/23