Jamila (she/they) is a dear friend who never ceases to inspire me. In this very personal and provocative conversation, Jamila talks about re-imagining intimacy, expanding their erotic horizons through gender-fluidity, navigating fear, and finding their "inner daddy". They share their experience dancing through grief and cultivating joy in difficult times, an art they learned while serving as their father's death doula only months after their sister's sudden passing. Jamila is a trailblazer in intentional lifestyle design and has much to teach us about being in authentic relationship with ourselves and others. A writer, self-empowerment coach, and life-enthusiast, they are on a mission to help people manifest their dreams. Jamila is the creator of Make It Happen, an online course for creative, compassionate people who want to be more powerful, purposeful, and spend more time doing what they love. Jamila's podcast, Deliberate and Doing it Afraid, features personal stories from the journey to their best life and the lessons that come from it. Jamila's work has appeared on TedX, Greatist, The Body is Not An Apology, and Shine. Learn more at jamilareddy.me.