When author Reema Zaman married her husband, she was dazzled by his charm. Then she started noticing all the ways he was trying to control her life.   New York Times Columnist Amanda Taub talks with Hind about domestic violence, authoritarianism--and how mechanisms used by dictators are used to exploit power at all levels.  For resources on domestic violence call the national domestic hotline at 1-800.799.SAFE or go to https://www.thehotline.org/.   See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.