welcome back to trendy or timeless, a series here on anything goes where i discuss popular fashion trends and determine whether i think they're trendy or timeless. let's just jump right into it. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

i hate to dampen the mood already, but today i'm going to be sharing with you two absolutely horrific stories. these are stories about me going to parties and it ending really badly because i accidentally consumed something that ultimately made me unconscious. thankfully, nothing too bad happened to me. these events happened a few years ago and i've been hesitant to share them up until now. but i've come to the conclusion that i think they might be useful for some people. subjects discussed...

hello, and welcome back to advice session, a series here on anything goes, where you send in your current dilemmas or anything that you want advice on, and i give you my unprofessional advice. and let me reiterate, very unprofessional advice. i recommend that you take all of it with a grain of salt. with that being said, today we’re covering trust issues and boundaries in romantic relationships. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

the journey to finding a healthy balance with the internet and technology is an ongoing journey. a lot of the things i've tried to help manage my internet addiction have not stuck, and so i'm on a journey to find new tactics that will work better. and i think i've found a solution. let me discuss my internet addiction and why it's such a problem.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

i've compiled a list, a very special list, of things that i've been enjoying recently. it takes me a long time to build a new list of things that i'm enjoying - hence why we only get two or three of these a year. but i'm at that point. my list is long. so let's get into my current list of things i'm loving right now.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

[video available on spotify] today, we're talking about sex, which is funny because i am not known as a super sexual person. i'm somebody who could not have a more cookie-cutter sort of sexual experience. i'm a monogamous dater. i'm also somebody who doesn't love casual sex. i've never experimented in any open relationships. and this is why i’m excited to speak with lori beth bisbey. lori is a sex and intimacy expert and psychologist. she also hosts the podcast, “the a to z of sex.” we’re...

welcome back to advice session, a series here on anything goes, where you send in your current dilemmas or anything that you want advice on, and i give you my unprofessional advice.  today we're going to be talking about inner turmoil. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

this episode is about to be very weird and meta because i'm going to be discussing a life lesson that i learned from making this podcast. and the reason why this is going to be weird and meta is because i rarely discuss what goes into making this podcast. it’s about realizing that i tried to fix something that wasn’t broken, and how it led me to a confusing place. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

do you want to know one of the things i love? home decor, the art of the home. i'm a very visual person, so i think that's why i love interior design. so, in honor of my love of home decor and interior design, today i’m going to share with you some of my favorite home decor trends. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

[video available on spotify] today, i’m feeling a little more energized than usual because it's not often that i'm in the presence of a pop star - charli xcx aka charlotte atchison. are you kidding me? she runs her own label, directs music videos, co-manages developing artists, and has collaborated with so many incredible, talented people: blondie, selena gomez, gwen stefani, camila cabello, shawn mendes, benny blanco, david guetta… the list goes on. charli’s latest album, her sixth, is...

welcome to advice session, a series here on anything goes, where you send in your current dilemmas or anything you want advice on, and i give you my unprofessional advice. today i've gathered some questions and complicated situations that involve friendship. so let’s dive in. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

[video available on spotify] this is a very full circle moment because today i'm bringing on the two people i spoke to when i went on my very first podcast, cody ko and kelsey kreppel. cody is the host of the podcast insanely chill, and kelsey hosts the podcast, circle time. they are truly some of my closest friends. cody and kelsey also happen to be married and they recently became parents for the first time. i’m excited to talk to them about parenting because i think a lot about having a...

when you're young, birthdays are exciting because it means that you're unlocking new, adult activities. you're unlocking new mature responsibilities. this year, i turned 23 and realized that's over for me. depending on who you are, birthdays after a certain point can become even more exciting or even more daunting. personally, i'm pretty neutral. but i will say that it feels like societally we are afraid of aging. growing up, i saw endless anti-aging commercials - anti-aging facial...

for the past 10 years, i've refused to throw myself a birthday party and this year was no different. i just turned 23 and i made the decision that once again i was not going to throw myself a birthday party. and it's kind of weird because i actually enjoy birthday parties. but my god, do i hate throwing one for myself. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

welcome back to advice session, a series here on anything goes, where you send in your current dilemmas or anything that you want advice on. today, i'm going to be giving you unprofessional advice on what to do when you have a crush on someone.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

[video available on spotify] i love fashion but i wouldn't consider myself a fashion nerd. i'm not super educated on the history of fashion and so that’s why i'm excited to speak to richard thompson ford. he’s a stanford law professor and fashion history expert. richard’s also the author of several books, including “dress codes: how the laws of fashion made history.” he’s dug deep into fashion as a system of power, how the written and unwritten rules of fashion have evolved and influenced...

i just got back from new york last night. i was there for my fourth met gala and it was a phenomenal experience. however, as with all things, there's a chaotic side to the met gala, and that's what i want to talk about today. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

[video available on spotify] so let me set the scene for you, it’s two days until the met gala. i’m sitting in my new york city hotel room with my stylist and best friend jared ellner. today, we’re going to talk about my met gala look, and what the gala experience is like for us. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

welcome back to a series that i have here on anything goes called advice session where you send in your current dilemmas or anything that you want advice on, and i give my unprofessional advice. in honor of the met gala this week, i've decided to curate a special list of your current dilemmas that somehow relate to things i’ve learned from attending red carpet events. so let's waste no time and get right into it. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

[video available on spotify] in honour of my favorite fashion event of the year, the met gala, i've come to the vogue office in new york city to speak to sergio kletnoy. he’s the global entertainment director at vogue magazine where he oversees celebrity bookings. i'm excited to talk to Sergio today because i feel like we all have our assumptions about the fashion world: what it means to be in the fashion world and what it means to work in it. we're gonna be discussing what it's like to work...

welcome back to a series i have here on anything goes called trendy or timeless, where i take current fashion trends that are happening in the zeitgeist and i figure out whether they're a trend, something that will be cringey to us in six months, or if these trends are actually timeless. let's waste absolutely no time and get right into it.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

when i deleted tiktok two or three years ago, i truly believed in my core that i would never in a million years redownload the app. and now here i am, redownloading the app. i feel a little bit hypocritical because i made such a stink about deleting it and damning it as being evil. i also feel a bit embarrassed about going back on my word. but i am. i'm going back on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

welcome back to my advice session, where i give you advice about various dilemmas that you’ve sent me on instagram. today i’ve gathered various dilemmas that you’re all experiencing in regards to whether or not you should leave your partner. i empathize with this because it's one of the hardest decisions to make in life, whether or not you should leave someone. so without further ado, let's get into it. if you’re struggling with something right now and want my advice, send me a dm on the...

i came to the conclusion the other day that i need to allow myself to be bored more often. this is not a new conversation for us here on anything goes. i have talked about this before, but i've come to the conclusion again recently that i'm not bored enough. and i know that being bored is important because, through life experience, i've noticed that times of boredom have led me to do incredible things. so today i want to get into why i think boredom is important. Learn more about your ad...

the stanley cup has been a hot topic of conversation now for probably a few months. this cup has taken over the world, probably not the world, but at least america. but the stanley cup is not all sunshine and rainbows. as with all things that go mainstream, people now hate this cup, and what's been said about the stanley cup is that it's cheugy. cheugy is a slang term that describes someone or something as uncool, outdated, or lacking in style and originality. it can also mean someone who is...