Episodes
Sorry this is so late. We've been busy having fun -- and working too much! UK Swinger club attached by thugs http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3015776/Masked-gang-attacks-swingers-club-400-year-old-Tudor-mansion-forcing-semi-naked-customers-streets.html Minnesota club barred from opening (Distracted by our hot producer) Tips on reddit on how to throw a meet and greet https://www.reddit.com/r/Swingers/comments/2x58s8/followup_from_throwing_our_first_swingers_meet/ Shake Weight for your...
Published 05/27/15
Opening commentsMuch love to Debbie and her new headset! Blissbringers vs Google: http://blissbringers.com/f**k-google/ Article by Violet Blue referenced in above article: http://www.zdnet.com/article/timeline-googles-role-in-global-sex-censorship/What’s the Fu be up to?Mardi Gras PartyCo-hosted with Camo and Lace on Valentine's DayDifferent / better / cool for us / shared party responsibilitiesPhoto booth success! http://www.sparkbooth.comTechnical details of photo boothLoved having brunch...
Published 03/10/15
Hello Friends! January's was crazy! Sorry the last podcast was late.Oh and sorry for the audio problems in the last episode. It must be going around.The Black Ring makes an appearance on the Savage Lovecast #430. Check out the blog mention.Flirty really works for swingers too! https://www.yahoo.com/style/11-pretty-cool-things-you-didnt-know-about-106616804873.html.Swap Fu Debrief!Thinking of hitting up karaoke at the club.Average Swinger pop in! A welcome chance to get to know an awesome...
Published 02/09/15
This and that... It's a New Year and people still celebrate Kwanzaa!Threesome Etiquette? Nope.We're talking about the FUNCH! What the f**k is a Funch? It involves a spa robe and jewelry... and a no show.Sound complaints. We're trying!We took a chance and had the Girls Uncorked couples party at our house. It was a success!Swinger Santa sighting!Swinger Zombies? Of course! Zombie Dildo? Get to the point... Ms Fu and I discuss a reddit post on breaking rules. What are your rules based on? Are...
Published 02/07/15
Intro and WelcomeVacations are good for Sex! Lots of sex with each other in Mexico!Is Mr Fu caught up on date nights?Programming Notes and AnnouncementsBook “ A Modern Marriage: A Memoir”, by Christy & Mark Kidd. Tells their positive story about swinging, trials and successes. They still swing! Debbie n Mike are reading and enjoying it. http://www.amazon.com/A-Modern-Marriage-Memoir/dp/1476753466Illegal Swinger Club in Terre Haute Indiana closed down, city violations. How does this relate...
Published 12/16/14
A visit from our Swap Fu Swinger Club correspondent -- Tiffania! Plugging HUMP!http://thestranger.com/hump Mr Fu gets shamed! Bad Mr Fu. Bad! Getting sex on the calendar. Half of us got it right. Getting our swirl on. Congrats to all our swinger newlyweds! OktoberFUst. You should have been there! T*****s on the pool table. Back in the air with Mr Fu! Cheater infiltration -- Don't enable bad behavior. How do you know if you're getting the full story. Were the Clintons swingers? Who cares!? All...
Published 11/19/14
Quick note... Sorry this is a little late -- we recorded on 10/10/2014 but I've been super busy.Also, we repeatedly refer to the episode song as Fine Shine by The Period Ring -- it's Fineshrine by Purity Ring. We're goofy, we know. What’s the Fu been up to?Above average pub crawling with the Average SwingersPre-Crawl Pizza at Home SliceViolet Crown Social ClubShangri LaEasy Tiger BakeryThe RooftopCoyote Ugly San Diego Trivia adventure with amazing peopleTalking to a couple that started...
Published 10/22/14
Intro and Welcome/What’s the Fu be up to? Production note: Sorry about the boomy audio! Back from Naughty N’awlins DSI  Drinking plan  Sexing plan Restaurants and Bars:  The Beaches  Razoos  Johnny's Po Boys on St Louis  Felix  Red Slipper Cafe  Royals House Bloody Mary Review NIN schedule WTF is a contribulator?!Three mini topics People that make me feel a little shittier every time you see them. AVOID!Mr Fu gets grouchy about the proposed Swinger flag. Email “Calling Dibbs” Parting Thoughts...
Published 09/24/14
What's up? Well... Thank you Los Swingers for hospitality once again!Tost rocked it out for FuGrrl's birthday! Full circle and then some. In the news... Herman Munster Gets Rapey: http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/man-dressed-herman-munster-raped-3934576 (Will selfies replace mug shots?)15 Celebrities Swingers: http://madamenoire.com/453365/15-celebrity-swingers/Sex Facts!:...
Published 08/05/14
First off...Today we hit the road to Atlanta to visit our good friends, the lovely Los Swingers!First some sad news -- thank you very much for all the love and supportGirls Uncorked couples party! Los Swingers need another Girls Uncorked chapter in Northeast Georgia. ABC Swinger news storyHuffpo article on what to expect at a swingers resortDesire was a little tame for Los Swingers -- the resort should know how to plan for the rain!Topics...Ethics follow upWhat information should you share...
Published 07/08/14
What’s up?Summer is here.  We’re hot in San Antonio!We have a listener producer, Debbie from DebbienMike on Kasidie :)In June Kasidie’s Girls Uncorked - couples parties http://www.girlsuncorked.comJoin Swap Fu Community on Kasidie http://www.kasidie.comFacebook Girl Uncorked group? Help?Swingers in the newsQuick news item - Two police officer brothers having a swinger party with their wives.  One wife was not into it and got punched by the other wife. the police were called in to reinstate...
Published 06/10/14
---Corrected Euless Meet and Greet Date! It's May 30 not May 31. Sorry!--- Thank you for joining us once again! FuGrrl is loving being Girls Uncorked chapter hostess! The new Girl Uncorked chapter in the Texas Hill CountryA Girls Uncorked is coming to St. Louis, courtesy of a San Antonio transplantFor more Girl Uncorked information go to: http://www.girlsuncorked.com Meet and Greets with Average Swingers Euless May 30Austin September 13Check out the Average Swingers on iTunes and...
Published 05/21/14
Holy s**t! We interviewed a couple! The mics were out after a date so we interviewed a couple victims friends. Pre... Setting expectationsFriends First vs F**k FirstMr E talks about daring -- get out there!Ms J discusses the play benefits of separate room play at house partiesDiscussing insecurities of your partner being with someone else -- turning that into a positiveBe willing to learn from past experiencesPost...Craig's List #1: The Pinky Finger IncidentCraig's List #2: The Cheating...
Published 02/04/14
Endless gratitude to our listeners for sticking with us all this time!! What's up? So long Club Prestige! Better to have two clubs than one.A vanilla New Years EveMr and Ms Swap Fu alternate off-nights at a couple eventsFeeding the community by introducing peopleThere's more swingers out there than you thinkFACT Check: There are 470,000 households in San Antonio not 60,000. It is estimated that one in 200 couples swing. 23,000 swinging couples in San Antonio? Can this be? TopicAfter four...
Published 01/27/14
What's the Fu been up to? OktoberFUst of course! What a great party! - We welcomed our friends from Georgia -- Looking forward to your next visit. - Dodging vanillas - Setting up with a little help from our friends Meeting swingers at a bar for Beer Bingo - A fun, low-pressure way to meet swingers FuGrrl on Twitter on hiatus for the sake of safety Topic Singles in the swinging lifestyle - Are singles swingers? What are they risking? - Mr Swap Fu bends his brain doing some swinger math - Ms...
Published 10/30/13
Where's the Fu at? We went to New Orleans! Colette is the coolest. Amazing service. Uncompromising DJ. Awesome decor. Should definitely be on your must-do list. Plus we had a surprise encounter when we got there.A successful meet and greet with the San Antonio Pervs at the Bonham Exchange.Odds and Ends The Pervy Little Social Club takes a misstep -- or how not to grow an orgy group.Sober Summer is drawing to a close this Sunday Funday.Like little, boozy gems. Topics Thoughts on the "Once Per...
Published 08/22/13
What have we been up to? Sober summer; from solstice to labor day. Second year and going well.How do we swinger sober? Fake it 'til you make it!4th of July at the Bonham Exchange: http://bonhamexchange.com Topic: Discussion of the Vanity Fair video: http://video.vanityfair.com/watch/vanity-code-how-to-behave-at-a-swingers-partyA discussion of the Swap Fu Swinger Event PlanHow to escalate physically without being creepyMs Swap Fu runs into a former coworker at one of our partiesJB and Cal from...
Published 07/25/13
Happy Father's Day to you and Happy 50th Episode to us! (If you like listening to Mr Swap Fu, this episode is for you.) Check out the Swinger Subreddit for good swinger discussions: http://www.reddit.com/r/Swingers/ Good discussions on orgy management, threesomes vs foursomes and younger swingers woes. Topics: Knowing when to throw in the towel. Cancelling a date when you're feeling down for the sake of your company. Went to the coed Girl Uncorked party! Big fun. Seeing old friends and making...
Published 06/17/13
What's the Fu been up to? Desire trip -- borrowed partners and the soggy grapes of wrathCareer changes and plane old problemsAn orgiastic experience. More more more.Tonight's Topic What does your partner do that annoys you?Maybe a size queen should take a turn for the team.Side bar about Pillow PrincessesWhy won't my wife have rough sex with me?Always being late is annoying your partner.Drop the Kabuki and get her to the playroom quicker!Make sure your partner is taken care of before you get...
Published 05/14/13
A quick update... Are you in the lifestyle and don't even know it? odds and ends: side benefits of being in the LS The staycation party idea. You and four of your closest friends hanging at your house.  Hire someone to come in and make breakfast? Going to Desire with Swingercast, March 23 - 30.  More details at Swingercast.com Episode music: Florida pop stalwarts The Black Kids bring it with "I'm Not Gonna Teach Your Boyfriend How to Dance with You" off 2008's Partie Traumatic.  Add them to...
Published 11/26/12
A quick catch up after oh so many months! We spent the summer sober.  What was that like? Party Recap: The OktoberFUst We went to Desire Pearl!  Not with a group... interesting times. What to bring to a house party or just etiquette in general?  Look here:http://what-is-swinging.com/swinging-etiquette.htm This episode's music is "Loveliest Creature" by Savoir Adore on the album Our Nature.  Check them out!!  The whole album is great. The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content,...
Published 11/02/12
Beat the heat! Stay indoors and swing! 2-1/2 months since our last podcast... staying busy and lots of fun. Our dating attempts have been mixed at best.  Parents!  Give your kids a break and get out of the house. How experienced are we?  Mr Swap Fu says we're still new.  Are we old and creepy?  You be the judge! 1, 2, 3, 4 party fouls! The episode song is "Make Light" by Passion Pit on the album Manners.  The whole album is excellent and would make for great poolside listening this summer....
Published 06/28/12
A 10 minutes topic turns into a freefrom, hour-long conversation about our recent trip to Desire Resort and Spa in the Mayan Riviera with the Swingercast group. Observations and tips There weren't many tan lines at Desire, so we decided to bring you this song by the band Tanlines from Brooklyn.  The song is called "All of Me" off the album Mixed Emotions. The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for listeners 18 years of age or older. The Swap Fu Podcast is intended for...
Published 04/16/12
Recapping Podcast CommentsCuckolds are people tooThe good and the bad of the effects of swinging on self-imageWhy we don't have guests on our podcastSwing can only be improved but never masteredTopic: What's next for the Fu?Continue self-improvement: mind as well as bodyGoing to Desire! It's a just a trip to the beach, really.How we're going to dirty up a perfectly good summerStepping up the dating game and how we've been meeting new peopleA story about trying to live with more honestyWhat...
Published 03/12/12
Opening Toronto city officials asked to license swinger's clubs? http://cnews.canoe.ca/CNEWS/Canada/2012/01/16/19251646.html?cid=rssnewscanadaA flurry of Swinger Grindr-like apps for mobile phones. Expect more anti-competitive craziness, a la SDC and Lifestyle Longue.  Talk about the Adult Friend Finder b******t date.After so much talk about of monogam-ish relationships... where are the swingers, Mr Savage? Neglecting to consult one of the many swinger sages seems a little strange.Topic The...
Published 02/07/12