Have you heard this expression before? Not my circus, not my monkey? If you haven't I dive into a whole episode about it. If you are prone to worry about others, find yourself doing their bidding between friends or relatives, trying to solve other people's problems and taking them on as your own, then this episode is for you! Find Us https://www.instagram.com/jackiebrubaker/ https://loveyouevenmore.com/ Support the show

If you're guilty of procrastinating and making great excuses why you can't be doing what you want to do, whether it's a big lofty dream or simply getting your butt off the couch to start walking daily, this episode is for you.  I talk all about what procrastination really is, how to conquer it and how to move on with your life in a way that celebrates the small wins to create that larger life win we've been wanting but too afraid to get. www.loveyouevenmore.com www.jackiebrubaker.com IG:...

Friend of the podcast Stephanie Hamadto joins me again to talk about control in your life. Control is such an easy way to manipulate people, situations and even yourself whether you realize it or not. We help you work through how to relinquish control and coming from two Type-A personalities you've gotta know this is something we struggle with on the daily and have learned a thing or two about! Jackie has launched her new wellness website Love You Even More! Check out her new course on How To...

Dating coach, TikTok celeb and feminist Lisa Van Loo joins me on the podcast today to talk all about as an evolved, emotionally intelligent woman. We get all into how to weed out the jerk men who are still holding onto the patriarchy, how to understand what you really need as a woman looking for a long term relationship and how to finally get your own needs met so you can be a better partner to the right partner. We dive deep and yet find ways to laugh at the seriousness of it all.  Jackie...

Melissa Vine, therapist, non-profit owner and narcissistic abuse survivor joins me on the podcast today to talk about her journey being married in the church to a narcassist and how she was finally able to break the bonds that tied her and begin a new life with her four kids.  If you are in a narcissistic relationship, know someone that is or question if you might be in one yourself please listen. We go into detail narcasstic abuse like gaslighting, stonewalling and crazy making and how to...

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Talia Bombola joins me to dive into what exactly the wounded feminine is, how high achieving women are finding themselves in it. Talia focuses on  helping successful women heal patterns, rewire subconscious beliefs, find a partner and create a conscious relationship. Jackie has launched her new wellness website Love You Even More! Check out her new course on How To Build Better Self-Worth, read articles on loving yourself and others smarter and work...

Well, we get into it today! No, not a fight. But, rather how to have a better dialog with your partner in a heated situation. Aka. a fight. LMFT Talia Bombala joins me again to talk all about how you can create accountability within yourself, why doing the deep dive into why you react the way you do and the stories you have in your head from childhood are hindering your present day partnership. But, why men and women literally think differently and how to better take that into account when...

This week I'm doing a solo podcast to talk all about how the gut speaks to us to help guide our life. This is a topic I'm highly passionate about. I talk a lot about it in my professional and personal life and I believe it's the number one reason why you're feeling good or bad about your decisions. I get into the difference between what you gut sounds like and ego and how to tell the difference.  Jackie has launched her new wellness website Love You Even More! Check out her new course on How...

Introducing Helen Marray-Finlay, a Hollywood makeup artist and skincare expert with over 20 years' experience. Through her work, and as a woman going through menopause, Helen realized the lack of safe and effective skincare products specifically formulated for menopausal skin. This realization fueled her passion to create her own line of products that are straightforward, effective, and made with clean and healthy ingredients.  As a strong advocate for education around menopause and...

I'm thrilled to have on author, psychoanalyst, boundary and relationship expert and my personal favorite, Terri Cole to the podcast. This interview was truly manifested as I had recently discovered her and watched as she pinpointing my own people pleasing and over functioning codependency in such a new and understandable way that it left me wondering how I'd lived my life not knowing it.  We get into how to create healthy boundaries, what a high functioning codependent it (hint, if you're...

Host of The Good, The Bad and The Ghosted Sara Totten joins me to talk about the perils of dating and ghosting.  Buy That Girl A Novel on Amazon in paperback or Kindle! Signing up for Buzzsprout gets you a $20 Amazon gift card if you sign up for a paid plan, and helps support our show. Click here to start! https://www.buzzsprout.com/?referrer_id=1294879 Get tons of extra's from the podcast and help support it by joining our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/thatgirlthepodcast For more about...

Podcast host of The Good, The Bad and The Ghosted Sara Totten joins me again after our ghosting episode last month to talk about what bread crumbing is, why your ex is still watching your stories and how to know if they really want you back.  Buy That Girl A Novel on Amazon in paperback or Kindle! Signing up for Buzzsprout gets you a $20 Amazon gift card if you sign up for a paid plan, and helps support our show. Click here to start! https://www.buzzsprout.com/?referrer_id=1294879 Get tons...

Health and Wellness Coach James MacDonald joins me on the podcast to talk all about his journey of discovering self-awareness. We dive deep into his story about this, his personal development beginnings and how his developed self-awareness helps him in everything from coaching, being an entrepreneur and a loving husband and soon to be dad. Find...

Anxious Attachment Coach Chris Racliffe joins me again on the podcast to tag all about how the anxious attachment and the avoidant attachment styles draw each other in by triggering each others wounding. The secret here? It's a chance to heal guys. But, only if you're willing to work through your fear. We dive deep into what issues come up, how to solve them and how both can work towards secure attachment within the relationship. Find Us: Find Chris's book It's Good To See Me Again-- How To...

Alison Hare joins me on the podcast today to talk all things new mom. From birth plans, to labor and the hidden truth people don't tell you as a new mom. She is taking the veil off and giving you her personal journey to make you feel less alone and more informed what it's like to have your first baby. Alison is the podcast host of Late Learner, a women's business coach and mom advocate. She helps women become more aligned with themselves and their purpose. Find Us: The Late Learner...

Truth speaker, author, domestic abuse and survivor and advocate coach Elicia Partain is joining me on the podcast today to talk all about cheating... from a woman's perspective. So often we hear from the person cheated on, typically the woman. But, it's rare to hear from the woman's perspective on why she cheated. We dive into what that means, why cheating really happens and what to do to heal both as the victim and the cheater.  Find Us:Elicia Partain...

This week I have my dear friend, Renee Bauer on to talk all about choosing your own adventure. We talk all about how to choose your own adventure when you feel stuck in your life and know that there is more than this. We've all hit a point where things just don't feel aligned, your life feels stagnant and you're dying to make a change. But, fear stops you. Today's episode dives into what that is and how to make real, effective change in how to choose your own adventure and live a life more...

By now you've probably become familiar with all kinds of investing ideas or plans since the pandemic. Crypto Currency, NFT's, Treasury Bills, day trading and you might be wondering if any of these are a good idea or worth you time. Or, if there's a more solid way to invest your money in an uncertain economy. Well, I have my very own financial guru here, Andrew Sussman, to help explain what the stock market actually is and how it functions in a way that actually makes sense. But, more...

Love and relationship coach Chantal Landreville joins me to talk all about choosing not to have kids and what that's meant for her. We talk all about her decision and how it came about, what it's meant for her now and in her future and all about what it really means to leave a legacy. I too chime in on this topic with my own feelings about deciding whether or not to have kids and what it looks like when you're in the middle of deciding. This is a truly eye opening podcast for anyone who is...

This week I have on Christine Eartheart to talk all about creating a thriving relationship with your partner. We really dive into what creates conflict, how so many couples are willing to throw the towel in right before a major breakthrough in their relationship and so much more. If you've been feeling like you just can't get through to your partner and need some understanding on why, this episode is for you.  Christine and her husband are the founders of the Center for Thriving...

This week we have on a very special guest my boyfriend, Andrew Sussman. While Andrew is not a certified dating coach, life coach or dating expert he does have  the kind of insight people would pay for when it comes to dating, relationships and how to really know if someone is into you. He’s here to bestow his dating wisdom to you!  In this episode we cover the beginning stages of dating, what to look for, what he really means in his texts and just how important actions are versus words....

Hey guys, I'm doing an off the cuff solo episode on how we cope during stress and what that can look like. Recently I went through an extremely hard month of loss of a loved one and I wanted to talk about what stress can do to us to intellectualize our emotions and how compartmentalizing our feelings in order to just keep moving forward can really bite us in the end if we don't look at them now. Find Us: www.loveyouevenmore.com www.jackiebrubaker.com Instagram: @loveyouevenmorepodcast...

This week I have Hilary Mae Truong on to talk all about the mother-daughter relationship during the teen years. If you survived this as a daughter or a mother or both you know just how challenging it can be. Hilary gives her expert advice on navigating it not only with you daughter but how this dynamic has been passed down along women's lives from mother to daughter for generations and how we can heal it. Hilary Truong is an expert on the mother daughter relationship, former therapist and...

Chris Rackliffe is a personal development and anxious attachment coach whose ability to paint words has touched people around the world. He blends principles of psychology, personal development, philosophy and physics to help people feel and heal. Today we dive into the origins of anxiously attachment. Chris uncovers different coping mechanisms and how to begin the healing journey from anxious to securely attached. Find Chris's book It's Good To See Me Again-- How To Find Your Way When You...

Certified Life Coach and friend of the podcast Stephanie Hamadto joins us to talk all about the self-development book, Calling in The One by Katharine Woodward Thomas. This seven week course lays out the foundation to not only call in "the one" but gives you an extensive look into your makeup and psychology on what you need to heal, who you really are and what another person as a partner would look like in your life. Truth be told I had this book in my book shelf collecting dust for years....