FOR THE FULL EPISODE VISIT jessicasol.com/interwoven I invite you to become a member of our global community Interwoven for weekly full length audios and monthly life zoom call coaching and access to a community of incredibly humans all striving to elevate their lives to the next level. It is more common for us to yearn to be understood than it is to devote ourselves to understanding others. True healing however only takes place when we return to LOVE and you cannot return to this place and heal in yourself with a determination to judge, blame or shame somebody else. Not only are you jailing the person you are determined too misunderstand but you simultaneously jail yourself. You keep yourself cast under the spell of pain when ultimately your healing can take place right now should you choose to walk the path of understanding. It is said that when you heal, you heal up to 7 generations to follow and the largest form of healing comes from cleaning up the trauma and residue when it comes to those who cause you the most pain. While forgiveness involves intention to let go of resentment and anger, yes this is a wonderful first step, the deeper and permanent healing comes when we choose to understand around us. This is why duality is an absolutely essential part of life. Without the highs and the lows we are not allowing ourself a place to turn back to love. With only “easy” and “joyful” experiences it is likely we would act from ego, greed or other. Duality must exist as a pathway to our ultimate healing and freedom. The worst feeling in the world is to be misunderstood. Relationships fall apart when we choose not to understand the people around us. The greatest gift you can give another human is curiosity with an open heart. Understanding beyond logic and trauma. To look deeply into someones eyes and soul and to allow them to feel your intent to love unconditionally is what we are here to do in this lifetime. With loveJess ♥️