In this episode of The Antidote, Amy and Grace connect with comedian, writer, and essayist Samantha Irby about her love of Judge Mathis, processing her emotions post-pandemic, and how she balances being ‘quietly hostile’ and loveable. Amy and Grace share their bummer news of the week –  the Fyre Fest founder is starting a new festival, and Megan Thee Stallion’s home was broken into. They also share their antidote— going to the ballet and meal delivery.  This week’s Creative Tap-In:  “You can’t put your finger on who I am. I can’t put my finger on who I am.” -Beyoncé Purchase tickets to our live-show this Saturday: https://nycomedyfestival.com/lineup/the-antidote-podcast-live/   Do you have a favorite antidote, or need an antidote suggestion? A question for Grace and Amy, or something you loved that Amy, Grace or one of their guests has said on the podcast? Share a message with The Antidote team: https://mpr.tfaforms.net/111 or tag us on Instagram with the hashtag #ThatsMyAntidote, or leave us a message on our hotline at 833-684-3683. OUR SPONSORS: BetterHelp Online Therapy -  betterhelp.com/ANTIDOTE FULL TRANSCRIPT Amy The world is a dumpster fire. I'm Amy. Grace And I'm Grace. Amy And we want to f---in help. Grace We're comedy writers in Los Angeles, and we like to take the bad sh-- we hear and work through it together. Amy We talk about cultural moments we love. Grace Talk to people we adore. Amy Crushes we have. Grace And self-care we stan. Amy During these trying times, we all need a show that focuses on joy. Grace This is The Antidote. Hi, everyone. Welcome, welcome, welcome. We're so glad that you're back. Amy Welcome. From both coasts. Now I'm in New York and Grace is in L.A.. Grace I know we switched it, though, while I'm here for an event. And, yeah, I had to leave Amy back in New York. Amy Yeah, but she'll be coming back soon because we have our live show coming up. So Saturday, November 12th, 7:30 p.m. at Union Hall in Brooklyn, New York. Don't forget about it. Grace Yeah, doors open at 7 p.m. and we can finally announce our two wonderful guests. Amy Oh, my God. Grace Who are... Drum roll...Please Dulce Sloan and Jordan Carlos. We are so, so excited for these two amazing guests to talk to them live. So you don't want to miss that. You better come. Amy Yeah come on you can purchase tickets now at NYComedyFestival.com or at the link in our shownotes. And you guys Dulce Sloan and Jordan Carlos like they busy people. Grace Okay yeah. Amy Let's respect them. Let's respect them and show up. Grace Yes, tickets are selling fast, so if you'd like to come see us, we would love to see you. Amy By the way, Grace, I was just thinking about how there's new music coming out this week, and I saw that like Chloe Bailey and Ashanti and Rihanna. And SZA are all dropping songs. There's a song Shirt is like, Okay, girl, just rip through my heart. I know.  Grace Oh, sh--. I haven't heard it yet. Amy We sad outside. We sad outside. These men be treatin us bad. Grace Oh, no. Amy But I notice that, like, I love Chloe Bailey. She's, like, so extra and, like, has always been extra since day one. And it feels like the f---ing cyber bullies are coming for her because she's always doing the most. And I just saw her video where she talks about how she's so excited that her new song is coming out with Lotto. And I was like, Why are people calling for her? This girl has so much joy and people just want to take it from her. What is that about? Grace Yeah, I hope she's not reading the comments. I feel like I hope she's staying above all of it. But you know, you're a human being. When you hear people like talking sh-- like that, you're going to have some sort of reaction probably on the inside, even if, you know, she's not showing it. Here's the thing that I have never understood about the Internet and I continue to not understand. Like, leave people alone. Like, why are you coming