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“The convergence of a real life situation with the objectivity and experience of a professional makes a powerful combination in this heartfelt, authentic, and eye opening series. A must for all addicted and betrayed a like. Thank you all!”
Indiana_Steve123 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/08/23
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“Thank you for this great resource! I am working my way through all the older episodes, and quickly listen to the new ones. Plus, now I know about Real Talk Recovery and Tyler Patrick. I’m loving to hear about being the Buffalo from Ashlynn.”
Abraham---> via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
01/17/23
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“I see how a lot of what they said could be helpful but they totally diminished a huge part
If your partner is picturing other people they want sexually that is a door to a addiction and hurtful behavior and can make them want the real thing
Also why can’t a partner not be ok with that. What...”Read full review »
momy time for real via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
01/10/23
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“Good podcast for sure! Real Talk Recovery is even better!”
Playfulface via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
08/08/22
“Beware this couple divorced, and they shouldn’t have done a podcast putting themselves out there until they were truly healed. I think all 3 persons advice is suspect. I also think the therapist on this podcast wasn’t responsible for putting them out there. Also they should change their picture...”Read full review »
Facts Please! via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
07/28/22
“This podcast was helpful, but how that they are going on a different direction so am I.
Zach and Darcy do a great job and helped me move on with my marriage. They helped me realize that addiction language and betrayal language are part of what has kept me from moving forward. Check out The Self...”Read full review »
Worked well for me via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
04/21/22
“The ending is problematic. Coby seemed to panic and make a hasty, weak decision. Sounded to me he finally allowed himself to see the reality of Ashlynn’s poor treatment of him, since the podcast only ever looked at his poor treatment of Ashlynn. And the ongoing hating on Coby and loving on...”Read full review »
No_Why via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
04/12/22
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“I’m not a will smith fan but the fact that you made a podcast episode and the first words were “does will smith lack masculinity” is ridiculous. From what I’ve seen Jada is going through something very difficult (loosing her hair). Its an emotional journey with a lot of lows. Chris rock took a...”Read full review »
SEED.OF.LIFE via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
04/11/22
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“I appreciate the episode where Brannon finally tells his perspective, particularly about Coby’s “why I got divorced” episode (which was absolutely cringe-worthy). Coby has the gift of gab and knows how to use it to his advantage. His attempt at painting himself as the victim was shameful. I...”Read full review »
HappyfriendlyDinofun via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
03/21/22
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“I like the therapy brothers but don’t get much out of the other episodes.”
Girl-445 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
03/20/22
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“Here are some quotes from the insufferable Feb episode of "Grow with Coby" "Over the years, you talked about how going through recovery had strengthened your marriage. Whether it strengthened your marriage or not, it built you. It personally changed who you are. its not that it's...”Read full review »
momoffour84332 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
03/20/22
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“Thank you so much for doing this episode!!!
Obviously we are all just spectators, not in the relationship. Divorce is hard and there are always three sides to every story. As a listener from the beginning, I feel you validated what has felt ‘off’ for quite some time.
The podcast has helped...”Read full review »
BEFanS! via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
03/08/22
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“I used to love this podcast but man- the Grow with Coby episode on 2/20/22- I will never listen again. I love you Ashlynn and wish you the best!”
Jl8109 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
03/04/22
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“I found Bannon Patrick on YouTube when I was trying to understand my betrayal trauma, then found Brannon and Tyler on this podcast.
I was gobsmacked by their clarity and down to earth guidance while navigating their guests betrayal journey of healing.
I can’t stop listening and learning. They...”Read full review »
Tisme Susan via Apple Podcasts ·
Australia ·
01/19/22
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“So I’ve enjoyed listening to “The Betrayed, the Addicted, and the Expert” in past years! I took a little listening hiatus and was surprised to come back to the podcast and learn that so much had changed for you guys. I’m sorry to hear that, and to consider how challenging that must have been. I...”Read full review »
wolffacedgladiator via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
11/26/21
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“I found this podcast years ago while working my S-Anon program. It has brought me out of my shame of my husband’s addiction and believing I was never good enough for him or anyone else around me. It has helped me to stop my shaming loud voices in my head and face and acknowledge them. I also was...”Read full review »
Katie_GM via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
11/24/21
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“I just discovered this podcast 10/2021 so I’m not emotionally invested in Ashlynn and Colby’s marriage. So them announcing their uncoupling/divorce doesn’t influence my view of them. A lot of reviews show that people were really invested in their marriage 😂 anyway! As far as a resource for...”Read full review »
Starry11111111111 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
10/23/21
“I enjoyed the podcast but knew from episode one that Coby was a fraud. I told my wife after episode one that Coby didn’t seem to own his faults. I took issue with episode 4 “what happens when the betrayed relapses?” As the sex addict in my relationship I have come to understand you cannot relapse...”Read full review »
don peringon via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
07/25/21
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“Some good info within the first 200 episodes. But in the end they divorce and then they try to get you to subscribe to their new endeavors. No thanks. I don’t really respect Coby. He failed his wife and kids. I wish them the best. I think Ash grew so much and is in a way better place and you can...”Read full review »
Salvistylz via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
07/20/21
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““Boundaries” exist and are important. But when you build a business and following based off of extreme honesty then those boundaries begin to encompass those you’ve included in your journey. It’s clear what’s happened here and it’s also clear that Cory is the one to make this decision for...”Read full review »
Whitredfern via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
07/09/21
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“My husband and I have been listening to this podcast for a few months and found parts of it helpful. But with the latest episode we are extremely disappointed! Of course people want privacy but when this podcast came out you chose to share the details of your relationship with everyone listening....”Read full review »
Nichole_Q47 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
06/07/21
“Triggering thousands of people and destroying hope all over the world! Wow… You do this announcement about “uncoupling” whatever that is…then 2 days later send a Venmo request for your recovery small group???? Jerk… arrogant jerk. Her face and body language said it all in the video they...”Read full review »
Muscleprincessruns via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
06/02/21
“First, having done a lot of recovery work in the area of co-dependency myself, it was good to have a fresh voice in Ashlyn with the trauma betrayal piece. And it is clear she has done some work. However, Coby is a piece of work, talks like he gets it, but in the end it didn’t matter and he...”Read full review »
AprilM1 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/29/21
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“After listening to the “Divorce Episode” I feel “Betrayed, betrayed and betrayed.” I disagree Brannon that this episode doesn’t discount all the good information that has been shared in the other 199 episodes. Unfortunately, for me it taints the entire podcast.
Many of the comments during this...”Read full review »
Grateful Brother via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/25/21
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“This podcast is horrible. And I listened to most episodes. In the back of my mind, I ALWAYS felt the husband was a fraud and disingenuous, frolicking in the fields of the popularity he gained by cheating on his wife. Twice. (At least) But I kept thinking, man they keep coming back together, maybe...”Read full review »
JustJosh_ via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/25/21
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“We found this podcast at exactly the right moment, it was essential for making sense of what we were both going through and I will be forever grateful for your wisdom and bravery in sharing your story. It sounds like this may have come at a cost to you, which is unfortunate. As a therapist, I...”Read full review »
Hlsteig via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/24/21
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“I hear no remorse from this guy. He is saying what he has to say to not seem like a bad guy. Typical narcissist. He has traumatized this woman and now gets to move on and start up with someone else who he doesn’t have to be accountable to. Men like this do not leave unless someone else is...”Read full review »
spookypug via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/20/21
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“This podcast is great to understand what people go through in betrayal, and to learn from the expert, but it’s so clear that Coby has not done the same work as Ashlynn. From her disclosing awhile ago that annually he would tell her he didn’t love her anymore, to him suddenly asking for a divorce?...”Read full review »
Fiona675 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/19/21
“You lived this since this happened. You will be free now. I love that you will no longer live under this betrayer name. I’ve been thru betrayal from my husband and I could never make him live that each day. Bless you for doing that as long as you did.”
Aesrockslig via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/16/21
“I was really disappointed today to hear this announcement from Coby. I am a recovering addict who has turned to this podcast for a lot of guidance and help. I personally feel betrayed that these people I have followed as role models of recovery and healing grief are throwing in the towel after so...”Read full review »
ConversionChris via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/14/21
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“I gave this podcast 5 starts because the content is soooo good. My husband and I have been listening to you guys for over a year and even though it was so tough to hear the news of your divorce I still love all the great content you guys have shared with us. Ashlyn and Coby have inspired me to...”Read full review »
ready 2 move forward via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/13/21
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“The last thing I want to hear is a sex addict crying. And the very last thing I ever want to hear is that he is crying because he has decided to divorce the woman who stuck by his side and in his words “in a traumatic way” no less. Really just shows me that it’s not worth it to stay.”
ChingaBob via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/12/21
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“This is really helping me understand more about my addiction - but more than that, how my wife (the betrayed) feels. Thank you for sharing your story!”
Jered M. via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/12/21
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“I cried so hard through the entire pod cast last night. This thing we call life is so difficult. I want to thank you for being so so so real. God knows. & will guide you & continue to give you the strength to keep going in your own individual journeys and as a family with your precious...”Read full review »
Thrice1983 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/12/21
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“Ashlyn and Colby!
You're more public than I am bud I would love to converse with both of you!! My life so mirrors yours and I don't judge or blame either of you!! I understand Colby taking the blame and guilt!! I absolutely understand and feel your pain!! Both sides of it!! I would like...”Read full review »
mike big lar via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/12/21
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“Sad Coby just wants a divorce now after all he put Ashlyn through. I’m sorry to hear this news today. He often called himself a do$&h on the podcast. Seems like a good fit.”
kspw63 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/12/21
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“Recently found this podcast... looking for tools to guide my own betrayal.
I do find much of your content useful and informative.
What I struggled with is a feeling of inauthenticity. I can’t quite explain it. You proclaim “my truth” and being so open and honest about your journey. I just...”Read full review »
TexanColoradan via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/11/21
“There is a lot of truth in this podcast that is good and true and worth listening to to help your own recovery journey with your loved one.
Nothing comes out abruptly if open and honest communication was part of the process.
So there was still a lack of honesty for the divorce announcement to...”Read full review »
mralexparker via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/11/21
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“Just have to say thank you! My husband has been in jail for the past 18m awaiting sentencing. Unknown to me, he was struggling with an sexual addiction that lead him down a pretty sad path. I am doing my recovery work and believe this time will help propel him to where he has always wanted to be....”Read full review »
Littleredjen via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
04/25/21
“I’m a recovering addict, and my wife and I listen to this podcast so much that we affectionately call it “Bae” now for short. My D-day was 8.5 months ago and we found this podcast together about 5 months in. We were both struck by how real and practical the advice is, and how relevant every...”Read full review »
IndySkies via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
03/12/21
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“I have been a loyal listener for about a year. I’m so grateful to Ashlyn and Coby being so authentic. It helps me make connections from their real stories and real struggles that I don’t think I would if everything stayed in the realm of theory. Their real life examples demonstrate how recovery...”Read full review »
hollyberry7193 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
03/08/21
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“My husband and I have been married 13 years. Early on in our marriage was the first discovery of his Porn Addiction. I suffered betrayal trauma for many years. I didn’t know where to turn or who to tell. I protected his dirty secret out of shame. He sought help through a “weekend program” and...”Read full review »
kw**** via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
02/02/21
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“This podcast has been a staple in my recovery journey. This trio has such a dynamic approach to all things betrayal recovery - the coverage of topics is balanced which can be hard to find. Thank you for doing what you do!”
CharleeinCO via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
01/16/21
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“I’ve been listening since nearly the beginning of this podcast. I’m at a beer different place in like now than when I started but continue to listen because the information is valuable for anyone that’s trying to better them self. Thank you!”
ChantzRuth via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
01/16/21
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“I discovered this podcast in fall of 2019 after I had discovered a second affair in my marriage .... my spouse and I both had been working recoveries in other programs over the last 20 yrs- )I honestly thought I was done, I couldn’t work through another affair much less work another recovery...”Read full review »
Dhsjsicdh via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
01/16/21
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