Coby is a fraud and this whole model of recovery is flawed.
I enjoyed the podcast but knew from episode one that Coby was a fraud. I told my wife after episode one that Coby didn’t seem to own his faults. I took issue with episode 4 “what happens when the betrayed relapses?” As the sex addict in my relationship I have come to understand you cannot relapse when recovering from trauma. The betrayed partner “relapses” when they don’t feel safe. The fight or flight response is triggered when their intuition tells them they are not safe and could be hurt again. As the betrayer I realize this responsibility falls on me to create safety and trust. I feel like this puts blame on the betrayed and makes them feel crazy for have these feeling which are valid.
don peringon via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 07/25/21
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From garry in Topeka KS. This has helped me and my wife to walk through this time in our life. One of my recent favorites was the one on the difference between recovery and sobriety. Thanks for the tools to do real recovery. So much common....my wife has been the negative one and I have been...Read full review »
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This is an amazing podcast that is simple to grasp and so very relatable! I feel like I am Ashlynn :)
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