Why are we so uptight about sex? Are we really meant to be monogamous? What does it mean to be monogamish or to have a free relationship? Why is sex so connected to shame? In today’s episode, Coach Mike has a revealing conversation with sexologist and intimacy expert Shan Boodram and Tony Directs about masturbation, learning to have good sex, why we judge each other, and so much more. Stay tuned to find out why Mike spent so much time in the jacuzzi growing up and if he has ever had sex with a woman! https://www.instagram.com/shanboody/ https://twitter.com/shanboody https://www.facebook.com/shanboody https://www.youtube.com/shannontboodram https://open.spotify.com/episode/1OTlChAnAed1lk5XLgwMI FB: https://www.facebook.com/coachmikebayer/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/coachmikebayer/ Twitter: IG: https://www.instagram.com/coachmikebayer/ TikTok: tiktok.com/@coachmikebayer http://stage29.tv/  https://www.instagram.com/stage29podcasts  https://twitter.com/stage29podcasts  https://www.facebook.com/Stage29Podcasts  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices