“My ex broke up with me several days ago, we still loved each other but it was obvious we weren’t capable of fixing this relationship being together now. We ended the relationship saying “I love you and good bye” to each other.
BUT next day I saw he started following random girls on Instagram, including his ex fwb, and then he unfollowed me. I was shocked because I thought he still loved me.
I couldn’t help asking him why he unfollowed me and he told me in a super cold way that he needed to stay away from me in order to heal but he still respect me and he doesn’t want yo erase me from his life.
I couldn’t understand what’s going on in his mind, and that’s when I found this podcast. Now I understand he is an avoidant person and he is hurt than I thought. It made me feel better after understanding his situation.
As soon as I deactivated my Instagram to have better quality time for myself, I heard my ex started being extra active even though he wasn’t a social media kind of person at all before.”
Hanaetty via Apple Podcasts ·
Japan ·
12/07/22